"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Can I Kiss You?"

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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immrtlwun

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That one is all about the delivery. How you say that determines so much of how that works for you.

I prefer more subtle kiss tests, such as the brushing of the hair or one I used the other night, kissing her hand and then based on that reaction going in for the real kiss.
 
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Wonderbread166

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This one's fun.

You: "Let me ask you a question... If I was going to kiss you right now, on a scale of 1-10, what would I give it?"

Her: "I dunno.."
You: "Well, let's find out.."

Her: "7/8/9/10"
You: Are you sure you can live up to that?...Prove it.

After, you can give her a somewhat low grade, such as a 6. The next kiss will be even better.
 
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I like to lean in a few times, pretend like I'm interested in what they're saying, and see how she reacts, tease her a little. Then I'll do one of two things, I'll lean in and kiss her lightly on the lips, or I'll just say in the most arrogant/impatient/ what the **** are you waiting for tone: "Are you gonna kiss me yet?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Soprano

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ive never asked g, for me a kiss is just somethin that happens
 
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SAy something like "I know u wanna kiss me but its to early" then kiss her!!
 
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dannowillbookem

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its called 'the kiss test'

youre sitting/walking. you reach over and play with her hair a little. you say something like "your hair is so soft" or nice or pretty or whatever and if she responds positive, keep playing with it a lil, then pull in and kiss.

i've only had to use it twice or so (i usually just kiss them) but its worked when i'm not quite sure about a girl
 
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