"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can I kiss a girl with a sore throat?

green69

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I've had a sore throat since yesterday, I've had to take about 4 tylonels a day to ease the pain, and several lozenges as well. Other than that, I feel fine - i went out and played basketball today and had work all day yesterday.

I'm goin to this girls house tomorrow, and I haven't seen her for weeks. She's going on vacation in a day or two and won't be back for a couple weeks. Of course, hooking up will definitely be on the menu when I see her tomorrow. So can I still makeout with her without getting her sick or passing on a sore throat?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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aftershock

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She'll probably get your cold. The best solution is not to say anything, people pick up colds all the time.
 

Tomatoes

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Aye.....Go ahead and just dont say anything. Her immune system might stop it. People get ill all the time for all sorts of random reasons.
 
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