"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can I just leave after meeting fat b1tch?

DEEZEDBRAH

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Im really getting tired of these lame ass OLD b1tches who put up photos from HS and hide their excessive 50 lbs. Ran into another of these last nights.

Can I simply just look at her and say, "Sorry, you misrepresented yourself in your profile and this is not what I expected. Good night" and Leave. Too much douche? Should I stay and have one drink with her?

Any thoughts
I just bail. If you can be rude and more abrupt, maybe she won't do it again.

Op, school boy error. Use snapchats and face time. Online if you must but, actual pickup ftw.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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YES! In fact, I encourage you to do this.

Liars are liars, they dont deserve someone "overlooking" the obvious and placating to them, even for a minute. You guys always talk about training these females, this is absolutely one situation where you should tell her how you feel and leave, in an effort to train them to be honest.
Ain't a man's job to be training a girl, that's her mama's job.

When I said to be polite and offer her a drink, it's to maintain a man's dignity and reputation. A man can be a fvcking demon when needed but he must have standards and this is one of it.
 

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Ain't a man's job to be training a girl, that's her mama's job.

When I said to be polite and offer her a drink, it's to maintain a man's dignity and reputation. A man can be a fvcking demon when needed but he must have standards and this is one of it.
I disagree, you owe her nothing. She baited you with lies. I'm not advocating being a complete d1ck, but certainly mention the fact and bid get a good day on your way out
 

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Ain't a man's job to be training a girl, that's her mama's job.

When I said to be polite and offer her a drink, it's to maintain a man's dignity and reputation. A man can be a fvcking demon when needed but he must have standards and this is one of it.
Watch the movie “Brawl” about man being a demon. It’s really intense and good to see Vince Vaughn in a different role
 

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I disagree, you owe her nothing. She baited you with lies. I'm not advocating being a complete d1ck, but certainly mention the fact and bid get a good day on your way out
Sazc, everyone lies.

Every other day I'm sitting with someone who lies to my face and I'd just nod my head, smile and enjoy all those little tricks people pull out to make themselves feel good.

It doesn't hurt me. But it hurts their reputation and dignity.

You see, for a cup of coffee, tea etc I've already made a profit; I now know her/him and yet he or she doesn't know me.

It's all highly amusing.

I maintain my dignity and my reputation as a man plus I gain something.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I usually ask a girl for an on-the-spot selfie before I meet her. In a playful way. Not like "GIVE ME A SELFIE" but something like "How can I trust your hair's as great as you say it is without seeing it?"

Even if she poses it'll be much more obvious from this photo if her OLD pics are accurate.

Also all these really overweight girls do the same poses. Look for excessive cleavage shots paired with jutted out chin head closeups (to disguise the double chin).

I think if you've taken her on a date, you should just do the date until the end. Be courteous about it and just see it as an opportunity to practice your craft with a girl - all the social stuff will be the same with the next girl you're out with. It's only going to cost you 3 hours of an evening at most, and you don't have to see her again.
 

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Snapchat ftw

School boy error. I can imagine online days in its infancy in the early days.
 
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