"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Can I Have Some Advice On A Bpd Ex Gf Please !!!

crazyboy

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hungary1234 said:
but what if i did change myself? what if i can become someone to pull her in line? because thats what i will practice if i get another shot..
she knows she will not find anyone else who will take her in like i did..she has major baggage and she knows this..
I just want to know will she realise this though and try to come back when i cut her off??
:kick: :kick: :kick: :kick: :kick: :kick: :nono: :nono: :nono: How lonely and desperate are you man. That you would put up with this sh!t if you were such a strong man you wouldnt put up with her to begin with. But you are weak and man its showing. fck call her up be like we can make this work then married her and some kids.:whistle:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GS750 said:
BPD chicks have other guys waiting in the wings, just in case you fvck up. They cannot be alone. They are empty inside and always need someone to fill that void.
Anyone else see the irony in this? On a pua forum of all places.
 

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Ok I get it now , yeah I have been doing that but would ignoring her speed up the recycle process??
Would that make her value me more?
She would obviously try more dudes before coming back.

And how can I make things different so it will last longer next time??
 

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You are doing it wrong. A single mom ALWAYS equals pump and dump or FWB not date and move in together.

I'd actually advise not to even mess with this low hanging fruit as a pump and dump because of the opportunity cost.
 

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Is it possible to treat her different ??
I heard you can treat a BPD with bpd and they actually like it??

Because they seem to eat ppl Alive, and seems there are some ppl who have success with them in the long run
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This shyt is bordering on troll. SMH.
 

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you are on some powerful drugs.
 
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