"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can I Get Some Advice?

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Long story short, Ive been dating this girl for 1 month, weve kissed everytime we have hung out including a time we almost did something more that i stopped, i asked her to be my girlfriend but she had told me that she didnt know me well enough and she felt like it would be rushing into something, and that it was something that she was interested in, everything was ok for a day, till i brought it up asking her if me asking her to be my girlfriend ruined everything? she said i was making it awkward by asking, deeper into the convo i start getting 1 word answers after that i hadnt talked to her for 3 days, i sent her a text and didnt get an answer? Is she trying to let me down in a nice way? whats going on in her head right now? did i scare her away? did i ruin any chance of a relationship? Shes ignored my text today, and we havent spoken in 3 days, im guessing im out for the count? shes 22
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You sound younger than this chick and less experienced.

By the sound of it, you f**ed up. Move on. No, More importantly, start getting 'game.' Now that you've had this experience it's time to unplug, and learn what NOT to do so you can start knowing WHAT to do with the next girl(s).

Here's a couple how's in the meantime:

- You asked her to be your girlfriend before any kind of sex happened. She felt awkward because you are so sexually withheld she hasn't comfort with you and probably can't trust you because you are whimpy.

- You have lost the dominant, sexual frame with her, hence why she feels awkward.

- You asking that and her responding in such a way only shows her low interest and puts you in a no pedestal position.
 
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It should mandatory that each new poster read's the DJ Bible before they can even post.

Mods is there a way we can look into this? Almost like a probationary period and once they have read the Bible they can have access to the forum?

Just a thought to get rid of all the clutter.





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