Can I Get My Ex-girlfriend Back?

[dvldogjf140]

Me and my ex-girlfriend have been apart for only a few weeks. We tried to be friends but that didnt seem to work. I have been a "nice guy" like many others. I am attempting to become a "jerk" I dont want to have that attitude all the time. I know that i will need to not care it has only been a few months since we have broken up. She is now dating some guy she works with. Is there a way that i can get her attracted to me again. Do i have to create the jerk part and how would i go about showing that to her. I am really good friends with her family. How can i go about turning the tables and make her chase me for once.
call me frost

 

[frivolousz21]

hey frost.

how long were you with her?

how far did you go physically?

how old are you and her?

what are both ur status in life? why did u break up?

how long was she dis interested before the separation?

 

[Jariel]

I and a lot of guys came here with the exact same question, but the simple fact is the more you try, the further you'll drive her. And by try, that includes trying to act the jerk too (or change your personality for her in any way).

I have written a tip with some examples and others have added some good examples throughout the thread too, which might help.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82346

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

I think you know the answer but you just posted this anyways.


I know i won't be the last person you'll hear this from but you need to hear it over and over again.


FORGET HER! And MOVE ON


She dumped you and it hurts.

But brotha she's moved on.

Look you said it yourself she has a new BF already.

She's a b1tch and you don't need her.


First off

1. You need to get rid of everything that reminds you of her.

2. Delete her number

3. Cut off all contact from her.

4. Keep busy and do your own thing.

5. Hang out with your buddies

6. Meet and go out with lots of other women.

7. DO NOT let you EX interfere with any of your goals or meeting new girls.


Not only will you be over your EX but also you will be feeling great.

Also stop posting and start reading.

Use the search and DJ Bible.

 

[SeldomSeen]

RE:

Yes you can get an Ex back. Hell Ive gotten 4 ex's back in the past, one of them twice as a matter of fact. But first ask yourself some questions.


Why do you really want her back? I mean seriously is she a wonderful person? Whats the deal with her and are you wanting her back to save your own ego or do you really have passionate feelings towards her. To me one of the best ways to get an ex back in your situation (where she dumped you and has the upper hand)
is to accept it, dont ask her questions like why? Dont ask for anything. Let her know that you are seeing other girls! If anything, even if you arent hell make it up that you're dating. Jealousy is a *****: it makes us do weird things.

If you want to throw a curve ball at her
give her the imression that you had planned on breaking up with her and you're glad she did because you didn't want to hurt her. I did that along time ago with an ex (when I was younger)
and it confused her to the point of her trying to actually get me back. Sometimes you have to do this through a third party like a friend of hers or something.

So again ask yourself why you want her back and ask yourself if its worth it.

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Re: RE:

Originally posted by SeldomSeen
Yes you can get an Ex back. Hell Ive gotten 4 ex's back in the past, one of them twice as a matter of fact. But first ask yourself some questions.

So again ask yourself why you want her back and ask yourself if its worth it.

I think YOU need to ask yourself those questions.

What was the point?

4 EX? jeezz I personally think that’s a red flag big time.

If I met a girl that went back four times and twice on one guy I would….

EJECT!!

You need to reevaluate yourself and huh do a little less posting and a little more reading.

 

[dvldogjf140]

I know I love this girl she is 19 and i am 20. This guy she is dating she works with and he is 24. yes we had a physical relationship, i got 100% of it we both lost our virginity to each other. 3 years ago. i have been with other girls so its not so much the sex, i care for her. We were together for 2 years then broke up for a year then were back together then she got a wild ich about mid september and we broke up again. I really just want to turn the tables on her and make her want me again. But i do want her back.

 

[aftershock]

Forget her. It's not worth it.

Don't contact her at all. If she does contact you, ignore her. Don't think you're being mean - she dumped you!

 

[dvldogjf140]

did i make a mistake telling her i couldnt be her friend at this time. I am sure i can at least get that back then go from there right.

 

[aftershock]

Originally posted by dvldogjf140
did i make a mistake telling her i couldnt be her friend at this time. I am sure i can at least get that back then go from there right.

Look, we've given you advice thats tried and tested. Either accept it or stop moaning!

Forget the ho. Got me?

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Originally posted by dvldogjf140
2 years then broke up for a year then were back together then she got a wild ich about mid september and we broke up again.

That right there brotha should tell you something.

1. She’s a wh0re.

2. She’s not loyal

3. She never was really in love with you

Look man so what you lost your virginity to her. It’s obvious it doesn’t matter to her. And to be frank with you it usually girls who are obsess with the guys who they lost their virginity to not the other way around.

Anyways, like aftershock said and I’ve been telling you Accept and Move on.

Forget about people saying they got their EX back. They are only causeing you more pain and frustration.

You my friend deserve better then her.

You deserve someone who is loyal and not a wh0re.

I know its tough to read this right now but you really got get over her.

There are sooo many women out their that are hotter and just way better around person then her and loyal.

Again there are a lot of post on this stuff so do some research and look for it.

Also forget about being friends that will only cause more pain.

 

[frivolousz21]

why did u break up the first time???

 

[SeldomSeen]

Re: Re: RE:

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
I think YOU need to ask yourself those questions.

What was the point?

4 EX? jeezz I personally think that’s a red flag big time.

If I met a girl that went back four times and twice on one guy I would….

EJECT!!

You need to reevaluate yourself and huh do a little less posting and a little more reading.

Deejay I didnt mean that I went back with 4 of my ex's I just meant that I was in the position to get back with them. But I didnt see it as a win/win situation for her or for me so I declined. Ive only taken an ex back once in my life and it was good for awhile but then I didnt have the energy anymore to give to the relationship so we had a mutual breakup. And even if I did take an ex back 4 times in life understand Im in my 30's not 21 so it wouldnt be any big deal.

 

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[dap]

I know I love this girl she is 19 and i am 20.

I just threw up in my mouth a little bit.