"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Can I come in?" Show worth watching..

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I noticed a tv show earlier today that I found interesting. I havent watched many dating shows, but this one seemed pretty good. The basic concept is that two"chick magnet" guys coach two AFCs how to deal with women. They talk to them throughout the date and so one.

anyway...

While watching it I found myself being able to spot every single reason that the guys failed. I wanted to yell at the guy a lot of times because these mistakes were so obvious to me. It was a helpful experience because you can watch an afc interact with a beautiful woman and it will make you more aware of what NOT to do in order to get women. It was an eye opening experience and I recommend that anyone looking to improve their to watch it.

Oh and by the way, the "chick magnets" had an idea of what to do but they were no where close to Don Juan's.

Anyone else seen this show or a similar one in which afc moments can be easily spotted?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's a terrible show to watch. Some of the "studs" in reality are actually duds. A few of them have been on the show Blind Date and they were total chumps. Blind Date is the show to watch and learn from. Although most of that show is filmed in So Cal, the most shallow place in the world so those girls are alot more picky about looks than they would be in other parts of the country.
 
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^^^looks don't matter if theres attraction........bud

Uhm, Can i come in.........HORRIBLE show....you can't teach a guy how to be a Pimp in a few half-hours....you have to work from inner out....

I remember seeing one time though on that show....a guy who Knew Exactly what he was doing....and not listening to the guy on the Mic....and he got in the house and won the 2 grand....
And the other guy competing also....got all the challenges....but didnt get the money in the end...(because he didn't get in the house)
 
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I like watching just to watch what the guys do wrong/right.....but ya the show itself is a crock

The studs are HARDLY djs, just really outgoing guys with no game.....they keep saying things like, "Tell her she looks good!" or "Talk man, talk!" useless advice
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I watched the show for five minutes and was able to determine this: the only real difference between the "studs" and the "duds" was that the studs had self-esteem and the duds did not. No amount of "coaching" was going to give them much of a chance while they didn't have self-esteem. Dating advice is useless when all you really need is confidence.
 
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Its a good show but just for the laughs.
Some of the "studs" give out the worst possible advice... "compliment her a lot"... "bring her flowers", dude it's your first time seeing the damn girl!

And my next point, is the show fixed or what? I mean, if a guy shows up to pick up a girl in a limo, with MTV cameras all around them... how does she NOT realize she is on the show????
 
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Originally posted by NotaGoatLover
^^^looks don't matter if theres attraction........bud
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I did mention So Cal where everybody is shallow and yeah looks do matter. How could there possibly be attraction if she thinks you're ugly?
 
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Originally posted by NotaGoatLover
^^^looks don't matter if theres attraction........bud

Uhm, Can i come in.........HORRIBLE show....you can't teach a guy how to be a Pimp in a few half-hours....you have to work from inner out....

I remember seeing one time though on that show....a guy who Knew Exactly what he was doing....and not listening to the guy on the Mic....and he got in the house and won the 2 grand....
And the other guy competing also....got all the challenges....but didnt get the money in the end...(because he didn't get in the house)
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okay, almost all of you are saying something like this. Did you even READ my post? I doubt it. Read it. I never said the "studs" knew anything. Nor did I say anything about it being a quality show. It would be nice if you actually read what I had to say instead of reading the title and responding to that....ugh
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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that show is funny. I'm suprise that some of the guys get invited in even after they did some weird/funny shiet while on the date. Ie. stand on the chair and putting your head inside your shirt for 30 sec.
 
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