"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can i call it a date?

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Essa Rios

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After being rejected by a perfect 10 yesterday, i took the advice of
my fellow sosuave.com friends and changed my approach.
Once again after work i began to walk the streets looking
for a cute female to speak to.

I saw one at the bus stop alone playing with her phone, so i took a deep breath and went for it. I could feel my heart beating a mile a minute
as i was walking toward her.

Living in Hollywood, CA. the summers here are killer. Its always around
90 degrees, so i went up to the girl ( Nina) and introduced myself and sat next to her. Told her how hot it was and invited her to the local ice cream
shop for a scoop of ice cream. It worked because she began laughing and said no random guy has ever invited her for ice cream. Said it was cute.

We hung out for about 2hrs then she had to get home as her mon was
texting her alot (it was her mom as she showed me the texts)
I gave her my number and email but i didnt ask for hers. I wanted to play
it cool. I feel great, if she does not call or email its all good as i will be
back on the streets on Saturday fishing for more girls. Thanks Guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Evzone

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Great job with the approach. Day game has been something that I've been working on myself. Advice for next time: get HER contact info rather than giving her yours.

We could use some more day-game threads like this. I think they are most useful for people my age, right out of college, who in the past I've had a good measure of success from parties and nightlife. When you're not partying hard since you actually have to work in the real world...well, it's a different dynamic.

Back to topic: The fact that your conversation with her when you were hanging out went well is good, but it's still a good idea to get her contact info so you control the dynamic. Even if she is interested, which it sounds like she is, don't underestimate the natural shyness of girls. Of course it's different if you two have been dating/hooking up for a while--but you haven't. See what I mean?
 
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