Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can I block my ex from everywhere ?

aWolf

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I know its beta move
But I need her to get put of my life for good
She follows me on every single social media ( twitter, instagram, dnapchat.. You name it )
This girl is the devil and I dont anything to do with her becsuse I'm tired
I hate her. She destroyed my life and I had the chance to build it again.

Guys I'm with clinical depression and this girl made it worse I want someone to help me cause I cant take it anymore

Health, study, work, family, social all these things she managed to destroy them like cancer.

I swear I dont love her actually I've never hated someone like this before.

She managed to be my best friend's girlfriend ( my friend dont know that we were together )

Please help me
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aWolf said:
She managed to be my best friend's girlfriend ( my friend dont know that we were together )
Can you explain this part?
 

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How does this happen:
Health, study, work, family, social all these things she managed to destroy them like cancer
not to mention this
She follows me on every single social media
and your best friend doesn't know you two were together?

Let's say he doesn't know. Aren't you going to give your best friend a little bit of heads up. Something like: "hey buddy, you know that girl you're with, I was with her too. She destroyed my life. Just thought you should know."
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
How does this happen:

not to mention this


and your best friend doesn't know you two were together?

Let's say he doesn't know. Aren't you going to give your best friend a little bit of heads up. Something like: "hey buddy, you know that girl you're with, I was with her too. She destroyed my life. Just thought you should know."

I'm worrying about my life now.
I need help
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Peaks&Valleys

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aWolf said:
I'm worrying about my life now.
I need help
Why should I help you if you won't even help your best friend?

You're either the worst friend imaginable, or you're just a troll. I'm guessing troll.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
Why should I help you if you won't even help your best friend?
I'm a reck I cant help myself right now
 

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You should delete all your social media accounts for now, and stop seeing your best friend until they break up. If you have clinical depression and are on meds start working out and eating healthy, then get off the meds. Also start reading books like, The Power of Now, How to win friends and influence people etc..

If you spend you spend your time improving yourself every day you will no longer be depressed and you will forget about the girl.

She didn't destroy your life, it's not over yet and it's your reaction to her behavior that makes you miserable, you gave her power over you, now man up and take it back!
 
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