Can I ask you guys something?

[Murk]

I've only been dumped once, and I didn't rate the girl at all (cheated multiple times). I haven't met a girl that has blown me away yet, I hope I never feel what you typed in the OP. I've had people/girls talk me down, water off a duck's back. Resiliency my friend, you will need it in spades to survive on earth. Focus on improvement not dwelling on the opinions of people that are ultimately inferior to you.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

You really can’t be that cold

It is exactly that and what it is.
Business is cold and dating is even colder ha ha, you need to fill your sales funnel in both cases either with potential customers leads or potential women dating leads. Its exactly the same thing. Dude wake up and smell the coffee cuz you will need it..

 

[The Duke]

How long did it take you to have this attitude of IDGAF?

A divorce and about 8 girls after her over the course of 3yrs. I've always had the confidence but I had to kill the nice guy in me and stop doing things for others.