"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CAN i Ask a dumb question????

Willis

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Do chicks who ask for your number ever call?????:confused:

came from a basketball game & saw this chick and we started talkin and whatever and she was actually acting like she was interested in the kid(smiling, eye contact, blah, blah,) ..
:whistle: idk wierd

she asked for my number and i thought (oh my god this is realy happening) and saw her put it in the phone..and i thought she would call....guess what happen...


i guess what my uncle fred said was right..."when its comes to b!tches you aint special"smh..:kick:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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women haze

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Girls don't call guys unless you are like a Celebrity or something. You always have to make the first move......
 

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That's not always true back in hs two girls that were interested got my number and initiated calls. Depends on the girl and her level of interest but don't expect a call.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Don't sweat it. If a girl ever asks me for my number, I laugh and walk away.

99% of the time you will never hear from them.
 
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