"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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can high fat/protein cause fatigue?

JoeSchmoe05

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ive battled fatigue all my life, but i notice that when i have a fatty breakfast like eggs bacon and such, i feel pretty beat up for the following few hours. if i just have cereal or eat nothing at all, i feel more energetic. i need to probably start taking notes to make sure this isnt all in my head, but could the extra work im putting on my stomach with the high fat meals be making me tired? has anyone else experienced this???

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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semag

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If you get high GI carbs, like a lot of cereals, you'll get a blood sugar spike and be "energetic." In order to make the most out of REAL meals, like eggs and bacon, you need to work on raising your metabolism so it's providing you with a crapload of energy all the time...
 

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vit b defiencies can cause fatigue and mood swings and anxiety.
 

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if you have to much protein and or fat, will you get faitgue?

the short answer is yes.. and so is the long answer.

If you have more then you need you just put more stress on your system.
 

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Not sure about UK's answer, but the most obvious reason you feel sluggish after a larger, more calorie dense meal, is that your body is pulling more blood to your stomach to fuel the digestive process. Now, if you suffer from something like Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, it's just gonna multiply the effects.

Semag is right on though. Try eating some low GI carbs like oats, or at least some good multigrain bread with your eggs. They'll give you a longer, more steady supply of energy than some processed, sugary cereal. Oh, and take a multi. ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah exactly if oyu are digesting more it puts more stress on your system, your kidneys have to work harder and if your blood is needed for digesting there will be less to go round for oyur muscles.
 

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great tips and they seem to make sense... i suppose i need to work on my circulation. taking a multivitamin isnt a bad idea either. i also probably need to stop taking hot showers :(
 

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im not sure how you plan to work on your circultation, but try eating a low fat diet and doing a lot of excersize, im not sure why you cant take hot showers lol :p
 
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