Jair213
Master Don Juan
pretty boy floyd got some good input on this..
but like said before, nice girls are out there. dont give up my dudes
but like said before, nice girls are out there. dont give up my dudes
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Can girls be too nice? Do you lose attraction for girls that are too nice?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'm a nice girl and I am fiercely independent, so I'm not the clingy type, nor do I chase any man. I will not chase a man, fight for a man yes if he was worthy. A nice guy recently dumped me in the worse way possible - by dropping off the end of the earth- no contact for no reason given. I thought maybe we could be friends but I was wrong. I was naive and believed his lies. I don't think matters if a girl is nice or not, as long as she treats you well and you're both compatible. And girls who are not so nice, well they're usually self centered, insecure and demanding. Ain't nobody got time for that.
does that qualify as a 'nice guy' then? or did you mistake a bad guy for a 'nice guy'.justagirl said:
truth is there is no such thing as a 'nice' guy or girl. just degrees. a nice guy/girl can do bad things just as a bad guy/girl can do nice things.
often it's the perceiver who gets it wrong.
people are people. people are flawed. it is the human condition.
desire is the cause of your suffering. not the person.
if someone doesn't live up to your expectations, blame your expectations, not the person. shame on you for expecting a flawed human for being perfect.
if you are relying on another to make you happy you will be sorely disappointed. happiness is not outside of yourself.
"Nice girls" and "good girls" dont do it for me. I generally find them boring and feel that we dont click personality wise. I never get passionate feelings for them.
I like feisty girls with "spunk". The kind of girls you would call spitfires. That doesnt mean I enjoy girls who bring frustrating drama...it just means I need something more fun and challenging than what you think of when you think about "nice girls".
I have a couple of friends who are nice girls and I coudlnt date them long term. We just dont click like that and I feel like Id be too much for them to handle tbh.
And a girl being very physically attractive wouldnt change anything. If we dont click personality wise, I will lose interest soon enough. And also, its my experience that nice girls arent much of a challenge...and I enjoy a lil bit of a challenge.
No games, but a little bit of a challenge.
I like feisty girls with "spunk". The kind of girls you would call spitfires. That doesnt mean I enjoy girls who bring frustrating drama...it just means I need something more fun and challenging than what you think of when you think about "nice girls".
I have a couple of friends who are nice girls and I coudlnt date them long term. We just dont click like that and I feel like Id be too much for them to handle tbh.
And a girl being very physically attractive wouldnt change anything. If we dont click personality wise, I will lose interest soon enough. And also, its my experience that nice girls arent much of a challenge...and I enjoy a lil bit of a challenge.
No games, but a little bit of a challenge.
countwoofoolah
Don Juan
Repped for this browwfdsm said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.