"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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can gals tell rookie from experienced

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can a chix even tell if a guy is a rookie-never been with a gal-kisses, sex.... or a guy that has had gfs before. i mean its not like kissing and holding hands and all is like a hard task to master-uh just do it. i mean u can learn a lot of it by watching movies be it romantic or porn stuff. i really doubt a gal can tell-unless u tell em straight out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yeah... most girls can some how sense this unconciously. usually it's determined by your confidence though. if a guys been with a lot of girls before, he's bound to have a deal of confidence. compared to a guy that has only been with one girl... so basically as long as you have a lot of confidence and play it cool, she won't notice your lack of experience.
 

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Originally posted by joe45
can a chix even tell if a guy is a rookie-never been with a gal-kisses, sex.... or a guy that has had gfs before. i mean its not like kissing and holding hands and all is like a hard task to master-uh just do it. i mean u can learn a lot of it by watching movies be it romantic or porn stuff. i really doubt a gal can tell-unless u tell em straight out.
YES. They can. If you're a super confident, fearless, all-macho type of guy they might figure it out a little later than if you're a shy, unconfident wimp like me, but anyways you're all done for. Your poor technique (you can learn from movies, but not even close enough!) and body language will give you away quickly. And she could or couldn't be amused by your poor acting.

I'm talking from experience. I tried and I failed. She didn't complain but it wasn't a pretty scene anyway...it was pathetic, ackward, shameful, and these memories will haunt me to the day I die (and maybe even later!.).

So, don't do it. Simply tell her it's the first time you lay a hand on a women, you don't have a clue about what to do and you're pretty anxious about it. If she's worth of you she'll be cool about it and will try to be a good teacher. If she isn't and falls off laughing...she's a piece of trash that has shown you her true colors, so forget about it and move on.

The first time is a complex enough matter, both physically and even more mentally...don't complicate it even more with lies. :)
 

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the first girl i made out with (not just kissed...that was at a reaaaaally young age lol) told me i was....GET THIS....a good kisser. It's not hard and like the other guys said, if u do it with confidence, you come across as more experienced.

Sex is usually when they find out tho...I made a couple rookie mistakes on her, and I just knew that she had me figured out. Oh well, live & learn...or in your case, ask & learn. HAHAHA!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was a late bloomer when it come to woman (first kiss 18), but i was just too damn horny so i channled it into confident behaviour and she never suspected a thing (said i turned her on like nothing before)

Their are a few simple rules for first timers i would suggest:

1) Do NOT tell her you're inexperienced. LIE.

2) They will NOT find out you are inexperienced if you take the lead. Basically, taking the lead, for example, would be to remove their clothes, lift them up, and throw them on the bed.

3) Confidence and LEADING is the key. They won't know what hit them. Just initiate everything.
 
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Just try to act all innocent like you dont know too much. Girls like this sh!t espically the ones that are use to dealing with d!ck heads. Hot chicks go crazy for innocent dudes but just dont fall into that friend zone. Get her in the sack or whatever then just be a d!ck to her whenever you can.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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