"I just moved here from Florida."

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She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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can doing something manly like just grabbing her and kissing her make up for afcness?

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if you've acted afc or sent a text message that just makes u look desperate and she's lost interest completely where she just doesn't want to see you anymore, but you've kiss closed already.

can you just lay 1 on her and grab her and kiss her next time u go past her in a real manly way showing you dont care. would this stir uncontrollable emotions in her or would you just get slapped? (i want to do this on an eastern european/ex-soviet girl)

i know usually u should show indifference so just be polite and say hi, but wouldn't a big manly gesture like this also work? i read this in the sosuave.com tips section. if so how long after u finished things should u wait before u do it? i.e. if it's over and u dont see her for 3 weeks, is the impact of it just too late?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pete101 said:
if you've acted afc or sent a text message that just makes u look desperate and she's lost interest completely where she just doesn't want to see you anymore, but you've kiss closed already.

can you just lay 1 on her and grab her and kiss her next time u go past her in a real manly way showing you dont care. would this stir uncontrollable emotions in her or would you just get slapped? (i want to do this on an eastern european/ex-soviet girl)
Yes, grabbing and kissing a girl who's completely lost interest in you will stir uncontrollable emotions in her. Then you'll get slapped with a restraining order and maybe a sexual assault charge. In a real manly way, of course.

Cheers!
 

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pete101 said:
if you've acted afc or sent a text message that just makes u look desperate and she's lost interest completely where she just doesn't want to see you anymore, but you've kiss closed already.

can you just lay 1 on her and grab her and kiss her next time u go past her in a real manly way showing you dont care. would this stir uncontrollable emotions in her or would you just get slapped? (i want to do this on an eastern european/ex-soviet girl)

i know usually u should show indifference so just be polite and say hi, but wouldn't a big manly gesture like this also work? i read this in the sosuave.com tips section. if so how long after u finished things should u wait before u do it? i.e. if it's over and u dont see her for 3 weeks, is the impact of it just too late?
You don't seem to be new here so in what manner were you coming off as an AFC?

If a girl has a high interest level in you, anything you say will come off as gold for as long as that interest level is high. Especially a text based form of communication (such as texting), her mood is responsible for the way she interprets what you say.
 

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since you're acting like an afc and giving off afc vibes, your manly action will probably come off afc too.
 

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since you're acting like an afc and giving off afc vibes, your manly action will probably come off afc too.
That's a very good point. You can't be coming off AFC the whole time you known her and been hanging out with her and expect her to change her perception of you off of one move. :nono:
 

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