"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can cold approach work in a small town?

DJDeMarco

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Hey, I live in a town of about 5000 people and work in a town of 1000. Almost all the women here are taken, though there are some single women around.
I don't have any way to meet women except through cold approach or random meetings. My social circle is no good for meeting women.
Can cold approach work in a small area like this? What is the best way to meet women under these circumstances?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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logicallefty

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My town has a Casey's General Store. You'd be hard pressed to find any local that doesn't go there. Many Casey's have 1-2 tables inside where you can sit and eat. I've gone in there and sat at the tables and ate and got numbers before from women passing through. I'm lucky that my town has a major north south highway running through it and a lot of non local people come in too. But if you can find a gas station like this in your area that sells hot food, that gives you a reason to hang out in there for a reasonable time without loitering.

Otherwise, a laundry mat might be another option.

Mark my word, there are single chicks in town, you just have to find them. You may be able to get online on say PoF or Tinder to find some too.
 

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logicallefty said:
My town has a Casey's General Store. You'd be hard pressed to find any local that doesn't go there. Many Casey's have 1-2 tables inside where you can sit and eat. I've gone in there and sat at the tables and ate and got numbers before from women passing through. I'm lucky that my town has a major north south highway running through it and a lot of non local people come in too. But if you can find a gas station like this in your area that sells hot food, that gives you a reason to hang out in there for a reasonable time without loitering.

Otherwise, a laundry mat might be another option.

Mark my word, there are single chicks in town, you just have to find them. You may be able to get online on say PoF or Tinder to find some too.
Yeah, my town has a Casey's too. I try to meet women at my local Wal Mart also. Tried POF before, but it's the same people on there when I was using it. I go to the gym 5 times a week so there's another place too.
 
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