"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can atmoshphere around you ruin your game?

verysuave

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I just went to a quinsinera (when mexican girl celebrates her 15th bday). I wanted to game my friend's older sister but my game I felt was off tonight. It was HOT, i was sweating, the mariachi music was loud, all family members were there, she was carrying her kid. Would you have been able to pull this off? or would you have just said "fvck it, im out of here"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i am me

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postin in the wrong forum...but i would saw that as a hard situation to pull off. i woulda jus said fuk it im out....its not quitting, its choosing ur battles
 

vitor

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You showed up, that is a good thing, I posted a few pics of myself a while back and not to brag but as a muscular guy I sweat very easily. I dont know why but if I eat a nice big steak my body starts to tear it up and sweat. But anyways in situations where its going to be hot, I always wear Black shirts, I hate sweat stains in my shirts. I usally carry a few small paper towels or something to wipe the sweat. Now if you have a beard, goatee or stubble be careful when you wipe the sweat off your face as little paper peices will get stuck there and you will look like an ass.

Next time, go hang out , say hello to your lady, atleast let her know you came and wanted to say hi, then hang out inside, or in the shade and if and when its times to go tell her goodbye nicely and leave.

She has to feel like you made that effort
 

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Before any kids play pinata, break it with a bat and steal all the candy and leave. She will be impressed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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