im just having a hard time taking in how my gf has been. ive been with her 6 months and she just told me like last nite that i wasnt the first to finger her when i thought i was. and she gave me the whole story of her past with bfs (i asked). i mean,that was the only time any guy touched her there other than me but she told me how many random guys she made out with and how a couple years ago she got felt up by some random kid on a cruise. idk,kinda hard to swallow at this point,know what im saying. i felt proud to be the only guy to ever touch her and do **** you know,but i guess not anymore. i was her first **** at least and we had sex,more than shes done but still, its hard to have respect for a girl who partied a lot like she did, she pretty much went to parties and **** up until i was with her. itd just be nice to know she had a bit more self respect than that you know. then i started thinking about how i may have rushed into this relationship,like i did my last one. idk,im just gettin this off my chest since theres no one else really to talk to,so. idk,am i totaly out of line thinking like this or what?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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well no, i mean, she made out with a lot of random guys at parties and idk,its like 'ok,so youll do anything with any random guy"
i mean..the first nite i hung out with her when we werent together, we both ended up naked..the second nite,she gave me head..and it was fine at the time but looking back,its like "wtf? why would you do that when we arent even together"..its kinda hard to respect someone like that..and she asked me "you dont think im a ***** do you?" so i was like "=\ no,dont worry about it" when i think its kinda stupid to hook up with a bunch of random people "cause youre bored"
ya know
i mean..the first nite i hung out with her when we werent together, we both ended up naked..the second nite,she gave me head..and it was fine at the time but looking back,its like "wtf? why would you do that when we arent even together"..its kinda hard to respect someone like that..and she asked me "you dont think im a ***** do you?" so i was like "=\ no,dont worry about it" when i think its kinda stupid to hook up with a bunch of random people "cause youre bored"
ya know
California Love
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Wow you found out your gf is was a slut just like every other girl. You shouldnt think of it like that. Even the most pure decent looking chick you can think of at your school has probably made out with a good amount of guys. Yes it does kinda take away some of the pride, but think of all the chicks you did things with without hardly knowing them. Not that i care, but it is funny how guys who made out with and fked a hundred random chicks gets upset when they find out their gf made out with a few guys at parties in the past.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Does it matter?Originally posted by California Love
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Yeah, it's just a weird concept to get use to. I had hard a time thinking about my GF's fooling around with their old boyfriends, but it's not any different then you messin around with your old girlfriends.Originally posted by Bombshell
Wow you found out your gf is was a slut just like every other girl. You shouldnt think of it like that. Even the most pure decent looking chick you can think of at your school has probably made out with a good amount of guys. Yes it does kinda take away some of the pride, but think of all the chicks you did things with without hardly knowing them. Not that i care, but it is funny how guys who made out with and fked a hundred random chicks gets upset when they find out their gf made out with a few guys at parties in the past.
TyTe`EyEs
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You should have figured she had some experience. You got with her on the first night you hung out. From what you said I would bet she has done more than she told you.
I personally wouldn't get into an LTR with a girl I got with the first night. If I get it that fast, definitely not gonna last.
I personally wouldn't get into an LTR with a girl I got with the first night. If I get it that fast, definitely not gonna last.
I'm on TyTy Eyes side, i mean if you do that, take advantage and do wham bam thank you mam. It was fine at the time cos you wanted some, maybe she did too. Personally i think you are overawed by her experience. But think about it from the otehr angle, its alright for guys to do that making you a stud, but if a girl does it then shes a hoe. Is that fair? I dont really care but she might.
If you have been with her a while and like it, i d overlook it.
btw i will personally punch the person who says NEXT on this thread.
If you have been with her a while and like it, i d overlook it.
btw i will personally punch the person who says NEXT on this thread.