Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can anyone make sense of this?

maximunez

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G'day guys,
This is my first post on the forum.... so hey! Anyway, like a month ago i went to a bar with some mates and one of my girl friends brought a friends of hers... major hottie! So like half an hour into drinking i notice her staring at me so I just stare back with a smile, then she smiles. Later on in the night i get her number and plan to meet up. Over the course of the month we talk and last night planned to meet up at a club... as we both were heading there with our own mates. So on the dancefloor were hugging etc... but i didint go in for the major kiss (i think i was too drunk or something). So i go to the bar and leave her for like an hour with her mates.... when i get back i see her dancing with one of my mates and then they hook up! WTF! I sorta lost it at both of them and really told them off! I snobbed her for the rest ofthe night and occasionally give her a really mean stare.... when im leaving she comes up to me and says "you took too long!". So guys.... what should i do? leave it and never talk to her again? or try and work it?
Cheers Guys
Maxi
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Dude shes not yours, you shouldnt have 'told them off'! Its only a hook up though and especialy since she said you took too long, i does not neccisely mean your chance is over, you colud take her out some where else if you wanted and be a bit mroe of a man this time!
 

Phyzzle

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Check Mate, his chance is definitely over. Don't you see what he did? He walked up to some chick he basically just met, and threw a drunken tantrum because she kissed somebody else.

That's not exactly normal behaviour.
 
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