"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can anyone make sense of this? My ******** is VERY weak.

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(thread title censored, but that word is the phrase used to describe the language that women speak in)

So I've been taking this class for about 3 months and there's an HB 7.5 or so in there. Very typical giggly type girl, maybe 18 or 19. Up until last Friday I had no contact with her at all. We never made eye contact (even though I tried a few times), and she would pretend not to see me if we passed each other in the hallway. Then on Friday, she saw me sitting in my car at the gas station as she was driving by with her 8.0 friend. She starts waving ecstatically from the passenger seat. The waving was so frantic that I didn't even see her until she started doing it. So I just kind of laughed and gave a wave of acknowledgment back. The 8 just kind of glanced over but didn't do anything to acknowledge me.

So already I'm thinking..."That was odd. Cool, but odd." Today we had class together, and I was thinking about how I would play this encounter up to try to get an In. I forgot an assignment from my car a few minutes before class, so I started walking back and see her about to walk up the stairs (a little late). She sees it's me and immediately turns her head around behind her to look at an imaginary friend and keeps walking, almost bumping into me. She whips her head around just before crashing into me, and I even had to back up a bit. I'm just like, "Class is canceled!" And she goes, "Oh are you serious??" and lifts her hand for a high-five. I just start laughing and tell her I'm joking, and she like slaps my arm and pushes me and is just like, "OMG you're such a douche (my last name)!" and keeps laughing about it and talking smack up the stairs even after I'm walking away.

I'm confused. I didn't even know she knew my name, and now she's waving to me in public...calling me by name, and even kino'ing me. WTF is this? Was she too shy to talk to me before? Did I do something to raise her IL? Is she just a friendly chick that needs to be opened up first? It seems as though I MAY have a chance at plowing this broad, but I can't really take a course of action until I figure out what her deal is...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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...us your last name seriously douche...? Just curious.
 

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I think he was leaving out his last name..

The line probably went "Oh my god, you're such a douche, [INSERT LAST NAME HERE]!"

Or at least I hope your last name isn't douche.

Anyway, I wouldn't think anything of what happened. Make your move and do what your supposed to do.
 

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808 said:
Anyway, I wouldn't think anything of what happened. Make your move and do what your supposed to do.
Lol, thanks for clarifying that. Yeah I forgot the comma.

Anyway yeah, I don't know what the move should be because I have no idea what to make of this chick. C+F? Direct? Build rapport, then go for the number? What's the best tactic in this situation? I mean, it seems she has at least SOME interest if she found out my name somehow and is going out of her way to say hi to me in public. But she's almost always with her friend or talking to other people (very social). Dunno.

I'm a WBAFC btw, so shock + awe or anything like that would NOT be my preferred approach, heh.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It dosn't matter what she used to act like

She wants you now so go get her now

Females are like the tides, if you don't take advantage of this wave, then you have to wait for the next, that might not come!!!!
 

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your next tactic should be **** her in every hole
 

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Ok, so it sounds like you guys agree that there's interest there. But seriously, how do I go about this? What kind of approach is best, as far as C+F, direct, neg-hitting etc.

Right now I'm just wondering how I'm going to even chat her up with her everpresent friend at her side. Yesterday was a one in a million shot since her friend was absent at school.
 
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