"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can anyone id this model?

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bigjohnson said:
"Anything I don't agree with has it's roots in the <insert negative origin theory>" :rolleyes:

Being fat was only "attractive" at certain points in history, and that was because fat meant prosperity. In recent history there has been a lot of emphasis of fitness and health from a scientific standpoint, and it's influenced our ideals. On that tangent, if you want to see a sub-culture that's heavily influenced by homosexuals have a look at the local gym culture.
Well the fact is, gay men do play a major role in the fashion industry, that's undeniable. And many runway models have to have very masculine looking bodies in order to model clothes. Tall with a bad hip to waist ratio. These models certainly aren't women that look like that cute "girl next door". Sometimes they look like men in drag.

And then you look at the male models, and rarely do they look masculine in the Clint Eastwood sense. They tend to look boyish and gay. That whole "pretty boy" with the six pack look you see in Calvin Klein models.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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speakeasy said:
Well the fact is, gay men do play a major role in the fashion industry, that's undeniable. And many runway models have to have very masculine looking bodies in order to model clothes.
Top fashion models are extreme in the OTHER direction. Tall, skinny, wide shouldered clothes racks. Somewhere in the middle are the cute little fit women I date. For what it's worth, a build like the classic women, Willy Rey, etc., is more ideal to me. Soft, curves, not big. Feminine.
 

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200 my ass

that's 5 8 or 5 9, between 160 and 170


not really my cup of tea.. but she's not fat.
 

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Uh, I give up. You guys win. Have fun in America.
 
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Btw, get this...her first marriage ended quickly because her husband couldn't handle all the attention she was getting from men.

So I guess this means that even betas can sometimes end up with a model, but that's of course no guarantee that they have the balls to keep them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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