"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can anyone id this model?

speakeasy

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bigjohnson said:
"Anything I don't agree with has it's roots in the <insert negative origin theory>" :rolleyes:

Being fat was only "attractive" at certain points in history, and that was because fat meant prosperity. In recent history there has been a lot of emphasis of fitness and health from a scientific standpoint, and it's influenced our ideals. On that tangent, if you want to see a sub-culture that's heavily influenced by homosexuals have a look at the local gym culture.
Well the fact is, gay men do play a major role in the fashion industry, that's undeniable. And many runway models have to have very masculine looking bodies in order to model clothes. Tall with a bad hip to waist ratio. These models certainly aren't women that look like that cute "girl next door". Sometimes they look like men in drag.

And then you look at the male models, and rarely do they look masculine in the Clint Eastwood sense. They tend to look boyish and gay. That whole "pretty boy" with the six pack look you see in Calvin Klein models.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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speakeasy said:
Well the fact is, gay men do play a major role in the fashion industry, that's undeniable. And many runway models have to have very masculine looking bodies in order to model clothes.
Top fashion models are extreme in the OTHER direction. Tall, skinny, wide shouldered clothes racks. Somewhere in the middle are the cute little fit women I date. For what it's worth, a build like the classic women, Willy Rey, etc., is more ideal to me. Soft, curves, not big. Feminine.
 

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200 my ass

that's 5 8 or 5 9, between 160 and 170


not really my cup of tea.. but she's not fat.
 

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Uh, I give up. You guys win. Have fun in America.
 
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Btw, get this...her first marriage ended quickly because her husband couldn't handle all the attention she was getting from men.

So I guess this means that even betas can sometimes end up with a model, but that's of course no guarantee that they have the balls to keep them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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