"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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can anyone help?

jungleman pete

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Hey everyone.

Has anyone here ever successfully gotten rid of dark under eye circles?

If so what did you do/use? For a while I thought it was lack of sleep, but over the last few months i've been getting at least nine hours, and it hasnt changed things.

I would really like to lose mine, but after searching on the internet it seems like everyone has a differant opinion.

Any suggestions or stories or anything would be hugely appreciated, I'm really getting sick of them.

Thanks again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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step one: Forget they are there
step two: Get outside
step three: Get sex
step four: get food


bing :)


More specifically:

Exercise, diet, healthy mindset, etc. They aren't there, seriously.. You're the only one whos still believing in them...
 

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did my previous reply make any sense? I bet it did. But not in the way you thought it did.


Thanks for forgetting about whatever it was and moving on with your life.
 

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I know what you mean.

But I'll be having a great day, and then someone will mention them. Which makes me feel cr*p for the rest of the day.

I was hoping that someone here might have had some luck with it.
 

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you obviously aren't paying attention
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pulse, your intentions are good, but lets face it, he wants the problem fixed, not forgotten about.

On some people, sure they might not exist to others, but his are probly very noticeable if people are actually commenting on them.

I have a similar but less drastic situation so I bearly notice them. But if they have gotten to the point of people commenting, then I can see why he wants it fixed.

Unfortunately, I cant offer advice other than some docs say its veggies that can help eliminate circles...ive only heard this somewhere, correct me if I'm wrong...
 

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Thanks Jimbo.

I have read that a lack of iron may be a cause. This may have something to do with the vegetables. I'll definately check into it.
 

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Might help to know what your bad habits are. Do you drink? Smoke? Drugs?
 

jungleman pete

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I hardly drink and I dont smoke.
Um, I drink coffee everyday.
Not much more I can think off really.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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