Can anybody tell me How to escalate on first date

[sunnykhatri736]

Im easily able to approach girls and get their numbers and i easily get first date within 7 days or 10 days but after first date things change.
Im.able to do kino very well and have fun with her on first date. But im not able to hold her hands while walking or put my hands around her shoulder while walking or able to close the date with a kiss.
Then after first date she become cold or some starts ignoring me or some says i can never think of u in that way.
Can u guys help me out in this matter ?
All kind of advices and tips accepted

 

[LimeSlush]

How many first dates have you had where the girl says she can't think of you in that way? Several?

 

[sunnykhatri736]

I get numbers and first dates easily but after first date they friendzoned me
I do kino , i flirt , i tease and do fun
They always say that they didnt had that much fun with any guy on first date.
Before first dates they are the one chasing me but after first date they become old or friendzone me.
This thing is affecting my confidence now.

 

[RangerMIke]

There is no standard answer.... it depends on the circumstances and the woman.

The key is knowing when to switch from being fun and friendly to seductive... again you just have to know when.... there is no objective answer because this is all emotional. There is really nothing you can do to make this happen accept you have to build trust and rapport and get to the point where she is willing to be alone with you.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Do you get the kiss?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Alcohol. Sit next to her at the bar. Don't touch her at first. At about drink #3, put your hand on her thigh, do it as you are talking, like you don't notice that you're doing it.

 

[ubercat]

you're young and your in Delhi. which has to be one of the greatest dance capitals of the world. why don't you take them to a bar which has a dance floor. a couple of drinks and a bit of dirty dancing is a standard way to get past the chicks ASD

 

[RecoveringNiceGuy]

Watch her body language, pay attention to how comfortable she is, is she having fun and laughing and asking you questions? If so, she's probably wants to kiss you, all you have to do is make it happen. Most women won't want to kiss in front of other people, so a crowded coffee shop or bar probably isn't the best place for a first, well unless maybe they have enough alcohol in their system. But that's fine, grab her hand and go for a walk. Doesn't really matter what you do as long as you do it with confidence. Lead her around a corner of a building where you can have some privacy and kiss her there, take her to a playground down the street and catch her has she goes down the slide, or take her to a nearby mall and have her try on a sexy dress and kiss her in the dressing room area. As long as you are being confident, having fun, and aren't being creepy, you'll be surprised at how far a women will go even just an hour or two into the date.

Don't don't try to "trick" her into kissing you by putting your arm around her to be "sneaky". Unless you have one of those personalities where you can make lame stuff be funny or cool, you're just going to look creepy and weird. Women respond to confidence. Bonus points if you can do something that sweeps them off their feet, but just telling them to kiss you works great too. On dates I take women to my truck, we hop in, then they ask where we're going, and my response is "nowhere, I just wanted to be alone with you" and proceed to make out. Usually that's after already kissing her once with something a bit more romantic, but if they're attracted to you your confidence is romantic too.

Just be confident and do it. I'm by no means an expert and I've never had a woman not kiss me back or give me the cheek, but if for some reason she does then now you know she's not interested and on to the next.

 

[icantgetlaid]

Just go for it ... i like to make my intentions known right away ... two things happen:

1. you get laid quicker, or 2. the girl isn't that interested and it surfaces instantly.

So again, just go for it, do what you want. Is the girl pretty with big red lips you want to taste? kiss them

I've never had a girl pull away from a kiss .. most girls will go along with it .. even if they are not ready to kiss you. Who cares though .. you'll weed out chicks who aren't that interested.

 

[NSX-R]

I saw your previous thread and you said that chick had very high IL for you. Having that in mind , escalation should be the easiest thing . The problem though it's in your mind, you create barriers and you are limiting your nature. That's why you are making such threads.
Go in for the kill, don't be afraid of the consequences, in the end you will always be the winner no matter the outcome.

 

[Fitters]

You probably text them too much after the date. Make sure she knows you have options.
Like I have said and will continue to say " IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO TEXT , KEEP IT MINIMAL"

You night think after the good first date , it's okay to talk to her more but it's not. Let her initiate if she had fun