"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can anybody enlight me about scandinavian girls?

Who Dares Win

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A friend of mine has a home in there and since his parents left for vacation he invited some other friends and me to stay at his place for about 3 weeks, its very likely that we will go once planned.

The place is very close to Oslo but not in the city itself, anybody has to share some recent experience or knowledge about girls there? how they are and what they look for etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Greasy Pig

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The only Norwegian I know is: Vil du spise laks med meg imorgen? Pronounced: vill do speesa, lacks med meg immorgan?
(Will you eat fish with me in the morning?)
Apparently they eat a lot of fish over there, and they love it for breakfast.

I've used it on a few backpackers over the years and it made them laugh but I never closed.
 

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I had a college roommate from Sweden. The women are beautiful. Although, to my surprise, most of them are not actually blond. They are a liberal and progressive society, with very little religious influence. Casual sex is not frowned upon.
 

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From my trips to the Nordic countries, I can offer the following:
Scandinavian women are beautiful, approachable, and kinda easy. The vast majority speak English. I'm not sure about Norway, but in Sweden, Finland, and Iceland, if a girl is out at a bar by herself, she's looking to hook up. All you have to do is start talking to her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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