can any1 help me??

[Zerotwoonenine]

hey guy, i need some serious help this time cause this could be the next step forward for me.
I have been to this cousin's house a couple of times, he has a sis whos 18, his sis is very popular and normally has ppl around her house.
Last week i was at his house after our celebration party for leaving highschool(ALA high-any one go there?),so i was going to sleep at his house, there was one problem-not enough room, his sis wasnt going to be home that night cause she was out partying as well, so i slept on her bed. His sis and 2 other friends came back after half an hour and told me to sleep on the floor.
After i got on the floor we talked for 3 hours about random things, i was invited on the bed cause floor was cold, his sis and one of her friends fell asleep, the one sleeping next 2 me(HB8) wasnt, i started serious DJing her, i met her before but we werent real close cause my friend lives quite far away from my house, anways we started doing some serious touching and nearly got found out by his sis, so i got kicked out of the bed:kick: and i didnt get on to sex.
Second day his sis's friend(lets call her B)stayed and we talked, we told each other that it was one off thing and we weren't each other's type, but at the same time i felt connected to her and she gave me some serious body signals,i wouldnt mind have her as my GF but the prob is that i am afraid i will lose one of my best friends if i screw it up with his sis's closest friend and have no more chance with any of her other friends. So i am wondering, should i go for it, tell her i like her, and have her as a GF, or should i wait for next time we meet and carrying on as before with DJing and maybe more than touching. I would really like her as my GF but i dont want to lose my friendships with my friend and his sis because i probably am going to screw up the relationship(i dont want to marry her by the way).
Thanks for you opinion

 

[BAMF]

First off you friend should be helping you out with this. Its not like you after his sister or anything. You are after his sister friend, and unless your friend and her have much of a personal history, the fact that she is a friend of your friends sister shouldnt matter.

Next you need to hang out with her and finish what you started! After that you can take it from their and see if you would like her as your girlfriend, but theirs no point to rush into that, take it slow as far as that goes.

You should also consider that his sister may have kicked you out of the bed because she realized what was going on and was jealous. However this is hard for me to say with any certainty without having actually being in that situation. But if that was the case you could have included both of them :yes:

 

[Indifference Kills]

dont tell her you like her

everything ive ever read or experienced says telling her you like her before shes tells you is a big bad no no. its anticlamatic if you think about it. Here you are sweeping her off her feet, doing everything right, being a more MAN then shes probably seen in a long time. And shes thinking the entire time: Am I good enough for him? Am I hot/sexy/good looking enough for him? Does he like me or not? And you go tell her. break all that tension. :nono: BOOOO. dont do it. And listen to BAMF. Hes got great advice for you. Actually, you should go re-read his post right now. Go on, run along now.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

actually she keeps asking me if i find her atractive.
Anyway she lives quite far away, so it would require high maintainence for me to get her because my friends parents doesnt let ppl stay at his house usually.
thanks for the advice, i'll try my best to sweep her off her feet.