Koala king let's go over this.
Koala King: "What is a JERK? Is a JERK one of those tough bad ass guys with tats whose a member of a bikie gang?"
DJF or John: No Koala King, that is a bad azz biker that unless you are a true badazz, I would stay away from.
Koala King: "Does one have to be a great fighter?"
DJF or John: No Koala, King, a great fighter is a great fighter, again, someone I wouldn't mess with unless you yourself is a great fighter.
Koala King: I'd like to know what you think a JERK is?
DJF or John: A Jerk is a person that is overly rude, overly aggressive, too self-centered, and desires to put others down not for their own benefit, but to please his own selfish inner desires to feel more POWERFUL. Koala King, women aren't attracted to Jerks.....
Women are attracted to Sexual Men. Don't get me wrong, a Jerk can be sexual too in combintation with all the other negative qualities, that's why a Jerk gets laid. But a Nice Guy can be Sexual Too, in combination with all the other qualities that he has.
We as men must STOP thinking that women are only attracted to: "Bad Boys" "Jerks" "Thugs" "Street Fighters."
A thug is a person that is familar with the street life, uses violence with no regard for human life to obtain what he or she for that matter, desires.
A street fighter is a person that is familiar with the streets, and can kick your azz or injury you badly using the streets as a weapon. And understand, they can use the street code, street objects, etc., basically the "street" as a whole become their weapon against you.
Denzel Washington in Training Day said, "Only a wolf can take out a wolf." Only a Thug can take out a Thug. Only a Street Fighter can take out a Street Fighter. Unless you are one of those, dont' try to take out one of those guys to "impress" somebody, because the only person you will impress is your doctor, who now will obtain a huge payday by working on putting your face and body back together.
Women are attracted to SEXUAL MEN. It doesn't matter what TYPE of man the guy is....as long as he's SEXUAL.
- You never see ONE TYPE OF GUY, getting laid, you see ALL TYPES. You see fat guys, you see gay guys, you see nice guys, you see jerks, you see bad azzes, you see romantic guys, you see rappers, you see athletes, you see ballot dancers (yes I said that lol), you see Salesmen, you see Drug Dealers....
Guys it does not matter what TYPE OF GUY YOU ARE. All that matters is if you have a Sense of Sexuality with your Personality....and you will be fine with women. Quite honestly, it's nothing more to it than other. Everything else is just useless insecurities.
- DJF
