You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
LOL. Struggle? Getting rejected by 100-200 women to fvck one is no struggle. Its actually fun. The problem is many guys let rejection be a personal thing, instead of treating it like a missed basketball shot.DonGorgon said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Excellent attituden00bPimp said:
I prefer the 20/80 rule, I think that's a little more realistic than the 10/90.MrJibbles said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I see this said a lot here, but I haven't read many actual examples of it in the stories that are told. For the most part, if a women is sharing a "successful guy", she has other men on the side as well.Eternal_water said:
When you say deformed, do you mean stuff like cleft lip and pallate which can cause lobsided mouths, teeth or crooked noses? Or perhaps one dwarf ear?Chamber36 said:
Read betwe- Oh my!:yawn:Chamber36 said:Well you know even the hunchback of Notre Dame got himself a hot gypsy chick.
This is a fictional movie. A lot of what happens in the movies doesn't happen in real life.
Anyone can pull in the right circumstances, if they show the traits that the women find appealing.
If the women allow you to talk to them of course. Otherwise, it's just luck of the draw.
I know a guy with a cleft pallate, lobsided mouth and crooked nose, but no dwarf ear. It doesn't really hold him back because he does have some sort of "charisma".
Is he well off? If he isn't, hey, maybe he's got lots of confidence.
But looks do make a big difference in the ability to pull random chicks. I notice it myself all the time when I don't look tip-top. For example bad shoes/shirt/hair/skin. All these things make a difference. Women simply are quite picky.
I totally agree. Women are relentlessly shallow.
A dwarf ear might be forgivable actually. But would you make out with a one-armed chick? It depends on the individual.
Oh, trust me, there are men who are desperate enough to do it. I've even seen it happen! I had to go throw up! :woo:
What's most important though: there's no point worrying about things which you cannot change!
Always upgrade yourself.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
thats not what i meant, i'm saynig that since women work on their appearence more than men do, that is enough to say, prove that we men are more visual than women are.Eternal_water said:Getting our nails done?!?! We're not fairies!!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I certainly would agree with this. When I was younger at school, out of all us boys in the class only about 2 would be able to pull the girls with ease.DonGorgon said:
