Can an experienced DJ Review my game quickly? Chat log included

[SpazzAttackk]

Alright, so Im trying to get more plates. I have 1 potential LTR. Today I decided to spin another one (an HB9 I havnt seen in years) Ive messaged her about a month ago but never really capitalized on it. Heres the convo

Please understand that I had to use slang to my advantage. I decided to go in directly and skip the bull****. Dont be afraid to criticize, Im a big boy I can handle it. I just wanna brush up on my game for the summer. We only get a couple months up here in Toronto.

Me: Were going out for coffee this weekend. Capisce? Capisce. <- Latin for understood. We both have Latin backgrounds.

HB9: Bahah and whys that?

Me: Because I said so. Dont question me

HB9: But I live all the way in CITY now!

Me: So? Thats a soft mission <-- So? Thats an easy drive But in a more arrogant demeanor. Use of slang was strictly for regional purposes.


She went offline. Shes probably trying to counter game me.
But thats basically it, short and sweet.

 

[Atom Smasher]

In my view, not a good sign. You might have been too direct and to the point in your opening gambit. I think that most girls need a little build-up before the direct move, even if just an exchange of pleasantries or two. They need to feel a build-up (even if accelerated) and tend to be turned off by a more mechanical approach.

I would say give it one more shot, then Next.

 

[SpazzAttackk]

Fair enough. I went for super direct because she seems really insecure, (Known her since elementary school, was a 3 in highschool but somehow became an HB9)

I have a feeling she likes that type of approach.

But yeah, I managed to score 'coffee' this saturday. If she flakes shes deleted

 

[visions]

you two have known each other a long time so there's dynamics between you two the rest of us can't understand...

if she was a cold approach then i'd say your game was ok to great (depending on the chemistry and rapport between you two)

that being said, i'll say that her interest level is low for whatever reason...
i recommend nc until she makes a move. you must demand respect

 

[SpazzAttackk]

It was pretty cold, I havnt seen her in about 7 years. Managed to set something up on saturday and closed with the number. The real game begins saturday.

Im only doing this because the current girl I was hoping to LTR with is going stale. I tend to have beta moments when LTR and potential LTRs start dying. Spinning plates helps me keep my pride and dignity.