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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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can a women cause a man to become depressed

tebow1120

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Any of you guys ever had such women problems you start to become depressed.was depresses me is not being able too keep a women interested for a long time.Basically my question is can a women really drive a man to become insane.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bish0p

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I think so. I just got out of a relationship that lasted a little longer than a year with a woman I didn't even like that much. I broke up with her a couple months ago and I can't seem to get her off of my mind now. I don't know why I'm stressing over it as I know the relationship wasn't a permanent thing, but for some reason, I can't get out of this funk I'm in at the moment.
 

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can a women cause a man to become depressed?

No
 

Weezy

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A women can cause a man to be depressed. Anyone who's been dumped in an LTR will not argue that you do feel depressed after getting your heart kicked in.

This applies to getting punked at dating too.

However, I think the real question isn't can a women cause you to be depressed, but how do you react to it.

For example:

If you chase and chase a girl, and she has all the power and you're constantly feeling rejected, then you are causing yourself to be depressed.. Not the chick.

If you move on with your life you will no longer feel depressed..

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If you get dumped and you keep begging for second chances, it's gonna hurt a lot more, especially if she leads you on and then rejects you.

If you move on and don't look back, it will hurt, but you will heal.


So yes they can cause depression, but it's only long term if you allow it to be.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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shyguy32

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tebow.....you'll learn how to keep them interested as you progress, just keep working on yourself and the "game".
 

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tebow1120 said:
Any of you guys ever had such women problems you start to become depressed.was depresses me is not being able too keep a women interested for a long time.Basically my question is can a women really drive a man to become insane.
Are you asking can they drive a man to be depressed or insane?
There are huge differences between the two illneses. I think not only men but women too can become depressed if they cant keep a man.
I dont think they can drive them to insanity tho, at least not permanent insanity.
 

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I would say yes since i just got my heart kicked in by an 8 year relationship. Its only as bad as you let it get but then again its hard to control how you heart feels when its kicked in like that.

If you can control the situation then definitely you can get past the depression quicker.
 

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Yes, most certainly.

In my case, it was two LTRs (9yrs & @3yrs) that got to me badly. Anything shorter/less committed didn't really matter.
 

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If you're that subject to depression, then you already had the disease, it was just waiting for an environmental trigger to set it off. You need medication at the very least if this is happening. An SSRI is probably most appropriate and has an excellent change of reducing your depressive symptoms. There are online depression scales you can take, print out, and carry with you to an MD if talking to a mental health professional carries too much stigma. I can tell you from my work experience that nothing makes a man more attractive to women than being happy.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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