"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can a woman re-virgin herself by just calling herself a "born again" virgin?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kinda like me whipping my c*ck out and saying "im not whipping my c*ck out" simultaneously. I COULD say it, but then I'd just look like an *ssh*le.
 

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I still think its dumb as hell, but you could always use it yourself when downplaying your sexual history. That's all they're doing anyway. I suspect most of those women who try this have a high partner count and now regret it.
 

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Do you ever wonder why it's evangelical christians who come up with sh!t like this? Not Jews, not Buddhists, certainly not Muslims,... only evangelical types. Purity / Promise rings, chastity contracts, re-virginings, no masturbation oaths, etc. what other religion places such importance on sexual guilt?
 

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Dear Rollo,
Well yeah....Agree with you,the Castrati Sect in Russia known as the Skepsty,are an interesting case in point....As the name suggests they demanded Male Castration,from their converts...For some strange reason they died out LOL.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Do you ever wonder why it's evangelical christians who come up with sh!t like this? Not Jews, not Buddhists, certainly not Muslims,... only evangelical types. Purity / Promise rings, chastity contracts, re-virginings, no masturbation oaths, etc. what other religion places such importance on sexual guilt?
The evangelical sex guilt thing probably gets its roots from the whole 'family' construct. Too much sex eqauls kids born out of wedlock equals devil child, etc.. haha, just a thought.
 

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This kind of nonsense can only come from the minds of children.
 

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I've known a few skank-tified women. They found Jeeeebus and decided to become born again virgins after spending years as the town bike. Then they land some hardcore church going good guy and happily parade around their wedding rings and piety.

Two in particular come to mind, these chics were used up at 27 and 30. Best friends. Between the both of them they had 8 kids. I knew one from back in the day, I used to buy X from her, she tried to set me up with the other because she thought I was a nice guy. This chic tried the no sex till marriage and that she needed a man who feared god. I told her I was an atheist and that if she slept with her thug ass baby daddy then she could sleep with me. Needless to say she kicked me out and talked much shyt about me. Now both of them are married to mormon men who were virgins when they married these tired hores.
 

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Warrior74 said:
I've known a few skank-tified women. They found Jeeeebus and decided to become born again virgins after spending years as the town bike. Then they land some hardcore church going good guy and happily parade around their wedding rings and piety.

Two in particular come to mind, these chics were used up at 27 and 30. Best friends. Between the both of them they had 8 kids. I knew one from back in the day, I used to buy X from her, she tried to set me up with the other because she thought I was a nice guy. This chic tried the no sex till marriage and that she needed a man who feared god. I told her I was an atheist and that if she slept with her thug ass baby daddy then she could sleep with me. Needless to say she kicked me out and talked much shyt about me. Now both of them are married to mormon men who were virgins when they married these tired hores.
Interesting. Mormons have always had a dearth of women (for obvious reasons!) I wonder if slut women are attracted to the Mormons because they can always find a hard-up gamma (i.e., a beta's beta) who will not have a problem with them - or with a ton of kids!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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