"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can a woman be too ugly to be considered by a sexual assaulter?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article about a statement made by a minor legislator (that he ended up resigning because of) - something that I could easily imagine the POTUS saying :eek: - how the womyn who march against sexual assault are too ugly to actually be a victim of such - and it got me thinking.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/nebraska-state-senator-faces-expulsion-online-behavior-060836630.html

My opinion: I think there is something to be said here. I just can't see a man raping a woman that isn't on some level attractive, aside from the strangest of rapophiles, who I believe are the perps for the sensational rapes of 80 year old women, etc. (NOTE: I think that rape of children, even infants, are due to someone who "likes 'em young" taken to a sickening extreme.) Of course, although rare, there are some decent looking womyn who march (albeit without makeup), and of course a lot of these fat womyn in these marches that are young can have extraordinarily large & solid teats to go along with their butterball physiques, something that can be considered at least somewhere on the attractiveness scale, especially to an extraordinarily sexually frustrated man whose Y-chromosome is only still in the gene pool because his Y-chromosome-sharing ancestors from time to time had to resort to this to reproduce.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sazc

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From what I understand, the act of rape has nothing to do with the female, aside from the fact that she has a pvssy and he wants secks
My girlfriend was raped in July, in her home. It occurred in the dark, in her bedroom. He is a repeat sex offender. He came in his hand, on purpose. He almost killed her. She was clothed from the waist up. I don't think it had anything to do with her looks or her body. He didn't care what she looked like, he just wanted to rape her.
 

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Was this a home invasion, or did she know him?
 

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She had never seen him before. He let himself in thru an open bathroom window. In hindsight she thinks he was watching her b/c she has a 10 year old half the time and her boyfriend comes and goes every other weekend. He had to have seen that there was no second car in the driveway (the BF) and maybe knew that the kid wasnt home. The third time she came too she decided beg for her life and hope he 'finished' and decided not to kill her.
 
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