Can a TRUE dj lend a helping hand?

[Pugnacio]

OK So I've known this girl for over a year now (LVL 9.5) and it was pretty clear we both liked each other (cuz she's told me) but she had a boyfriend and I had a girlfriend so nothing was going to happen. So I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago and she finally just broke up with her boyfriend (or on a break whatever the fck that means) and the first thing she tells me is that she just wants to be friends. Now, I'm not retarded and I can read a girls body language pretty well and hers is saying that she still wants me yet she says this "friends" BS. When she told me she just wanted to be friends I responded pretty well I think by saying "are you kidding? that ship has sailed sweety" and I've even told her I've been seeing someone else and she seems pretty jealous by this. I think it may have something to do with the fact that the most she has done with ANY other guys besides her BF is held hands - she's never even kissed another guy. That and she also has INCREDIBLE issues of opening up to people (I mean she's dated her BF for over 2 years and they rarely even talk to each other about anything personal) and she's extremely closed off. I would really like some advice as of what I should do next - I mean I know from her reaction to me "seeing" someone that she obviously cares but it seems to be a matter of making her realize it and like I said she's really out of touch with her emotional side. THANKS FOR HELPING!!!

(Please don't repond with "move on" cuz this girl is really amazing and actually does like me I just need that to click in her head):crackup:

 

[IceCream]

I'd suggest for you to use alot of kino on her. And after a few times of progressive kino, tell her how she's so "closed off" and that she isn't living life because of that. And afterwords maybe take it to a strong "kino" move, like a kiss and tell her something like... "See that's what you've been missing out on".

 

[KarmaSutra]

OK So I've known this girl for over a year now (LVL 9.5) and it was pretty clear we both liked each other (cuz she's told me)

"cuz she told me". Wrong, wrong, wrong. You never ever listen to what she says. What spews out of her pie hole is what societal influence has forced her to say so she doesn't feel like a slizut. Pay attention to what she does only. She likes your attention thus far. Let's continue . . .

she finally just broke up with her boyfriend (or on a break whatever the fck that means) and the first thing she tells me is that she just wants to be friends.

She wants your attention and company but doesn't want you to smother her. Moving on . . .

Now, I'm not retarded and I can read a girls body language pretty well

Are you sure? About now the flags should be slapping you in the face. Here we go . . .

When she told me she just wanted to be friends I responded pretty well I think by saying "are you kidding? that ship has sailed sweety" and I've even told her I've been seeing someone else and she seems pretty jealous by this.

This was your opportunity to sway the tide your way. You should have amped it up one million fold with something to the effect of: "Damn it must be heartwrenching to know that I've neither the time nor the patience to be your psychiatrist or psuedo-daddy. Maybe next time?" With a big smile though. Don't go from Dr. Jekyll to Mr. A$$hole. On we go . . .

I think it may have something to do with the fact that the most she has done with ANY other guys besides her BF is held hands - she's never even kissed another guy. That and she also has INCREDIBLE issues of opening up to people (I mean she's dated her BF for over 2 years and they rarely even talk to each other about anything personal)

You know this as Gospel? Ask the last guy she blew in the club stall how fvcking hard it is to open up. Point is this all goes right back to her craving for attention like one of those two heroin slvts crave crack and blacktar hanging out at the Dr. Phil house. Are you sure you want a fvcked up chick like this dangling her poon out to you? She has too many issues, by your own accord, to go anywhere near this broad. If you don't you'll end up in pieces while another dude is throwing his missile up her dutechute.

 

[I love Hyori Lee]

I don't even need to be a "True" DJ to teach you the best thing to do.

You know what to do.

You don't need anyone's advice. What good will these people do for you? You have to figure it out for yourself. You need to approach her and be real with her. You can read as much as you want and deny as much as you want, but it all comes down to what you do.

And if you've forgotten what to do, read this post right here.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=113028

 

[KarmaSutra]

I don't even need to be a "True" DJ to teach you the best thing to do.

At least you're aware of your limitations and also how little you know.

You don't need anyone's advice. What good will these people do for you? You have to figure it out for yourself. You need to approach her and be real with her. You can read as much as you want and deny as much as you want, but it all comes down to what you do.

At the very least I give the guy props for reaching out and not retorting about what a fvcking idiot he is.

You need to approach her and be real with her.

Wow, please tell us more insightful prose Mr. Seduction.

Why don't you read somemore David Deangelo rubbish and come back with a book report.