2Rocky
Master Don Juan
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- Jun 13, 2016
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Frequently people espouse recently single people get out and date, and screw and have a variety of short term, low commitment relationships. My question is does that just reinforce negative behavior that could sabotage a potentially rewarding long term relationship in the future?
Secondarily, is it possible or reasonable to observe people in our social circle and make judgements about their potential suitability as a short term or long term partner without having that relationship in a romantic/sexual sense? Mainly avoiding the awkwardness of the eventual break up.
Which would you say is more harmful to personal growth? Serial monogamy, or Serial dating? My question is that does searching for new partners take time and energy away from improving one's position in industry, or pursuing their interests? Or is time spent maintaining a relationship take away as much?
Is a deep emotional connection with a woman a help or hindrance in your life and pursuing your goals? If there is not a deep connection, what fills that part of your life? Money, Power, Freedom?
Secondarily, is it possible or reasonable to observe people in our social circle and make judgements about their potential suitability as a short term or long term partner without having that relationship in a romantic/sexual sense? Mainly avoiding the awkwardness of the eventual break up.
Which would you say is more harmful to personal growth? Serial monogamy, or Serial dating? My question is that does searching for new partners take time and energy away from improving one's position in industry, or pursuing their interests? Or is time spent maintaining a relationship take away as much?
Is a deep emotional connection with a woman a help or hindrance in your life and pursuing your goals? If there is not a deep connection, what fills that part of your life? Money, Power, Freedom?