I repeat once again, I am not ur therapist.Thank god for that. I don't think I need advice from a dude who chases ladyboys in Southeast Asian countries. Keep that stuff to yourself.
Run along now and do ur usual blogging abt how life sucks for you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.