I repeat once again, I am not ur therapist.
Run along now and do ur usual blogging abt how life sucks for you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Can a relationship work out only if the male is in a higher status or equal to the female?
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Run along now and do ur usual blogging abt how life sucks for you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
zekko
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There's no universal rule about which relationships work out.
But generally speaking, I would definitely say a relationship has a better chance of succeeding if the male is higher status.
That seems to be the natural way of things.
But generally speaking, I would definitely say a relationship has a better chance of succeeding if the male is higher status.
That seems to be the natural way of things.
RickTheToad
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Whatever you say ladyboy killer. lol