Can a plate be "spun" indefinitely?

[AllDay85]

I've been spinning multiple plates to great success lately. Most of them go their normal cycle of being spun, then falling shattered. I have been running all my women through anti-dumps machine, which taught me that a woman isn't truly interested unless she asks you out, instead of the other way around.

So there's one of my plates I've been seeing for three months now. We have sex all the time, she likes to hold my hand, go on dates, and she is emotionally attached. Get's jealous when other women text me, and goes out of her way to please me. But one thing that bugs the **** out of me, is that she is seemingly perfectly content to continue this way. Where all my other plates reach a "let's be together or fall" point, she continues being a pseudo-gf while allowing me to see other women. I get that she is definitely spinning plates as well, I just consider it odd she lets it go on like this for months.

Any thoughts guys?

 

[Julian]

Sounds like you got the perfect setup bro LOL...eventually if your game aint tight she might catch you slippin and BOOM you have feels for her...just stay alpha, stay player and you wont have to worry about it...spin spin spinnem!

 

[AttackFormation]

She's waiting for you to turn into a sucker and give in. That's when she will push away from you and it will be over. Keep spinning her.

 

[fastlife]

I've found that the more alpha behaviors you project, the less women require, expect, or demand monogamy. You're probably 'performing' better with this plate than you are with any of your others--or she might be a little more red pill than your other plates. Just keep doing what you're doing.

But plates can spin for a loooooooong time--after my last LTR (2 years) I hit up some plates I was spinning ~2.5-3 years before that and they were all back on board with almost no effort.

 

[El Payaso]

And the problem is.....?

 

[logicallefty]

I had a very laid back and loyal plate once for 6 years, off and on.. She was from one of the European countries, I can't remember which. She was actually the most low pressure woman I have ever had, and sometimes I kick myself for not making it into more now that I know just how slim the pickings are for a quality low pressure woman. At the time a friend of mine took interest in her so I stepped back and let him go for it because I had other toys in my toybox at the time, but he didn't. She and he lasted about 3 years in a LTR. Ahhh, the sacrifices we make for our bros!!

 

[RangerMIke]

I've been dating this one woman causally for 10 years. It can be done as long as you keep your ego in check, and don't care if she drifts in and out with other dudes. This 10 year thing has a 'breaks' for as long a 6 months while some other guy was pursuing her.

She'll start seeing and getting serious with a guy, then what usually happens with her is she learns that she likes her life the way it is and isn't really interested in actually living with a man, and getting all monogamous. She always comes back. It works if you find the right woman... someone that is independent and emotionally secure.

 

[AllDay85]

And the problem is.....?

It's not a problem, just something new and unusual I have to get use to apparently. Sometimes the feminine conditioning rears it's ugly head.

 

[AllDay85]

I've been dating this one woman causally for 10 years. It can be done as long as you keep your ego in check, and don't care if she drifts in and out with other dudes. This 10 year thing has a 'breaks' for as long a 6 months while some other guy was pursuing her.

She'll start seeing and getting serious with a guy, then what usually happens with her is she learns that she likes her life the way it is and isn't really interested in actually living with a man, and getting all monogamous. She always comes back. It works if you find the right woman... someone that is independent and emotionally secure.

Do you feel like this arrangement was beneficial to you? Or was it more fulfilling to spin plates you didn't know so well.

 

[RangerMIke]

Do you feel like this arrangement was beneficial to you? Or was it more fulfilling to spin plates you didn't know so well.

Sure. If it wasn't I wouldn't be seeing her. It's not fulfilling at all to me to be dating and sleeping with women I don't care about. Maybe when I was a kid, but when you get older things change. It does make it harder when you have to break up, but the truth is it is much worst to drag something out.

 

[AllDay85]

Sure. If it wasn't I wouldn't be seeing her. It's not fulfilling at all to me to be dating and sleeping with women I don't care about. Maybe when I was a kid, but when you get older things change. It does make it harder when you have to break up, but the truth is it is much worst to drag something out.

I agree with you. But a consequence of seeing women I like, is I develop oneitis which is counter-productive. God, I wish there was a better dynamic.

 

[SmooveMooves]

No. Eventually they'll move on. When? Depends on how tight your game is. You can string a woman along for years.