"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can a person be a DJ if he works in an office

Can a person be a DJ working in an office cubicle everyday?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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B-Lemond

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This is almost as stupid as the "how do you kiss a girl when you are 6'4"" thread. Almost.

This is going to get CLOSED.
 

Permission

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No, it's not stupid, because being inside an office for that long can have negative effects afterwards.
 

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It'll only have negative effects on you IF YOU LET IT have negative effects on you.

The only thing that is stopping you from seeing those 8 hours a day seem like WORK or seeing those 8 hours a day like CLUB MED, is YOURSELF.

You can make ANYTHING in life AMAZING! You are the creator of your own destiny.

Whether you think can or can't, you are RIGHT!

Live your life to the fullest.

You don't need opinions from other people on the internet to DICTATE YOUR FUTURE!

Read 'The DJ Bible' and get yourself together.

You are Welcome...
 

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I work in an office 18 hours a day (for the last month) and I have no problem depositing my jizz in a b!tch's mouth every night.


This thread is stupid.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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IsiMan84

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Permission said:
In a cubicle for 8 hours a day
A person works 40 hours a week and a week is 168 hours long. That's less than ¼ of the week dedicated to work. Even factor in 10 hours a day for sleep if you want, and that still leaves 58 hours a week to do whatever the hell you want. Are you trying to say that somebody would sit around sulking all day and night because they have a job?

This might be the dumbest question ever asked. Are you insinuating that every DJ has to be unemployed?? The bills gotta get paid somehow, son. Good lord.
 

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I've nailed a few chicks at work and all of them kept their traps shut. Of course, it helped that they were all in LTR's..

So the answer to your question is.. YES. It's what you make of it!
 

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It depends what type of work you do

If your doing monotonous work all day and not interacting with people its soul destroying

If your keeping your mind busy with various tasks and speaking to people regually it good for you
 

IsiMan84

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Doggystyle said:
If your doing monotonous work all day and not interacting with people
Then you should be even more excited to get out of work and be able to do the exact opposite.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Are you guys actually looking for excuses for not having game? Environment has nothing to do with being a DJ.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Permission said:
In a cubicle for 8 hours a day
Man even if it were a toilet cubicle for 8 hours it's a piss poor excuse for being a lamewad with the chicks.
 

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You'll basically attract the same types of girls as you. Maybe you have nothing going on outside the office. I'm sure there are plenty of accountants who do nothing but come home and watch tv, then go back to work all lined up for you.

Just do what you like regardless of the girls. Then you'll attract the girls that like what you do, comprehende? No need to worry about changing yourself for them. You want to be filled with passion. And if the office kills that, it'll kill your game. But if you can find time to implement passion inside or outside of the office, you can do good. :up:
 
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