"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can a married girl avoid having feelings for you?

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Ok look at this situation.

I ended up bumping into a girl i knew from school. We had a thing for eachother at school, she liked me and i liked her but nothing really ended up happening (i was interested in another girl at the time)

Anyway i bumped into her at Burker King about a month ago during lunch break (i work at a mall and so does she). So we've virtually just chilled during lunch breaks.

Ok funny thing is i found out shes married! At 20! Shes Arabian and they get married off quick for some reason. Now shes not one of those real religious types. She actually lost her virginity at 17, to some guy i knew. And also went out with numerous guys at school. She probably got forced to get married.

Now i want to make one thing clear, i aint pursuing a married girl because thats just cheap and not right. As soon as i found out she was married, i just saw her as a friend and was just laid back. But the thing is i can just see it in her eyes just like in school, shes still into me. Shes giving me the usual signs, a girl gives.

What i want to know...just a question. Can a girl be able to fall for another guy (while married) whos good looking, funny and just genarally a cool and suave guy. Can she avoid these feelings coz shes married? Or cant she be able to stop them coz attraction is just a subconscious thing which you cant stop?

Im just finding it weird that a girl whos married is having feelings for me. Anyone ever been in a situation like this with a married girl?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WALK AWAY

This will only lead you down a very messy path if you continue.
 
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Watch out for those arabs! Thats all im going to say.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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im not going to be wrecking any homes.

im just asking is it possible for her to be attracted to me without her doing anything about it? Can she stop her feelings for me coz shes married?
 
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Originally posted by Gpaq
Attraction is not a choice
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No matter if she is married or not, she is still human, with FEELINGS. If she is flirting with you, then she is a $lut! If I were you, I would see her as a friend, and act accordingly... and yes, she CAN have feelings for you.


Laterz...
 
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i was sleeping with a 19 year old that was engaged. Wasnt worth it in the end when i had her arab bf trying to hit me. Sadly i had to kill him with my Ninja star (self defence)..............But nah i was fu*kign a 19 year old engaged chik i broke it of her Fionce never founbd out. Sht took it pretty bad but oh well.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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