Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I've posted pics before. The last thing people want to see here is guys pics. I'm average looking but at 6'5" 235 and blue eyes, I can pull off the Quarterback at press conference look on a good night.
One girl can fake it. But four in a group? How often in your life did you have four girls agree on something and later learn it was a conspiracy (not counting Obama supporters)? I took home $189,452 last year. Don't give me this doctor sh*t.
I gave them about $5 per month on average. Yesterday I brought a model home and asked my roommate to play the piano for her and he came through in the clutch, so he's learning.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Are you confusing men and women? Caitlyn, is that you?
Some of em do think like thisHere's a short conversation I had with a chick from my class after showing her a picture of my body.
They're insecure with men who look better than them.
The mind of a woman. How does it work?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
there are tons of guys who wont approach attractive women because they think they arent good enough
Just being 6'5" would be a huge advantage IMO. The "flaw in his psychology" remark made me laugh, because if there's a common thread among guys on this forum, it's probably that most of us get in our own way lol.
