"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can a DJ be sensitive?

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So i'm talking to my girlfriend and shes getting really intimate and saying all this mushy talk about how she loves me. She tells me a song thats just like it was written about me and it says how i saved them and make them happy and all that.

She then proceeds to say

"baby..your really a sensitive guy"

I did the stupid thing and asked in what way she meant it and she awnsered in a good way.

SO...can a true DJ be considered a sensitive guy?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sensitive to an extent.

Not TOO sensitive though.
 
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Yeah i didn't understand. Sensitive to me means like being kinda like a girl..little b!itch.but i'm not at all. Perhaps it's because i can talk to her about us and i can say I love you somtimes and mean it she thinks im sensitive. I just hope im not crossing the line.
 
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This website has gotten you a bit confused if such a compliment made you insecure. You're fine dude. That was a statement of oozing affection on her part.

More to the point - if you are sensitive, you're sensitive. If that's how you like to be in a relationship, then be glad that you found a girl who appreciates that quality. Don't change for a woman, change the woman until you've found the one for you.
 
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You're doing good.
Being C&F doesn't mean you never get some sweet, corny moments sometimes.

Keep it up!

-Bill
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by shark
Yeah i didn't understand. Sensitive to me means like being kinda like a girl..little b!itch.but i'm not at all. Perhaps it's because i can talk to her about us and i can say I love you somtimes and mean it she thinks im sensitive. I just hope im not crossing the line.
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how often do you say I love you?
 
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Sensitive can mean delicate, easily affected, emotionable, emotional, high-strung, hung up, hypersensitive, impressible, irritable, and nervous.

It also means receptive, responsive, seeing, sensile, understanding, and perceptive.

Sounds like she was using it in the second sense. I would have reinforced the positive aspects with something like 'yeah, I'm like a ninja, I see and feel everything. I try to use my powers only for good... though sometimes I am tempted to use them for my own sick pleasures...'
 
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Be sensitive like a seismometer. Not sensitive like watching soaps & crying & eating bonbons :D
 
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Originally posted by shark

She then proceeds to say

"baby..your really a sensitive guy"
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A great tip is to walk up to a woman and tell her what she really is behind her disguise. "You come off as cold hearted but I can tell that you're lonely and looking for Mr. Right".

Women do this to men too. "You act like your some bad ass DJ but you're really sensative".
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Nighthawk
Sensitive can mean delicate, easily affected, emotionable, emotional, high-strung, hung up, hypersensitive, impressible, irritable, and nervous.

It also means receptive, responsive, seeing, sensile, understanding, and perceptive.
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a female friend of mine was crying once and i was at a lost of words..
i smacked on her a$$ and told her to cheer up
she then sighed deeply and said "i supposed you are right.."
i said "NO,Bebeh..i AM right"

how's that for sensitive?

*sigh*
the s*** i get away with...
 
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I'm sensitive. but never really show it. I grew up having to hide my emotions. I get a little misty when sad things happen on TV. I get really ANGRY when horrible things happen to good people. I exercise all emotions, and don't give a **** what people think.
 
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it's often odd when i see someone clearly distressed but try franticlly to "hide" their emotions.

i for one wear my emotions on my sleeve,and i also don't care what or how people see me as. i am in a sense feel more freedom in doing so because when everyone else is fretting over
the "negative" types of emotions and trying to cover them up...
i soak in it and allow it to take it's natural course.
that IS living and good & bad are a part of life isn't it?
experiancing both in it's rawest form makes me feel more alive.

can someone pass the cheese please...:rolleyes:
 
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