"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can a Connoisseur of Levi Jeans please help me pick a type?

Which Levi's are the best?

  • 501

    Votes: 1 100.0%
  • 505

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 550

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 560

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 560

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    1

Microphone Fiend

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Alright here's the deal. I am 5'8, 125 lbs and I own mostly baggy jeans. After a couple episodes of "What Not to Wear" and realizing the stereotype I often fall into at first glance, Im looking to get some jeans that fit me and go well with a plain ole graphic tee and some sneakers. I only wear one pair of boots so Im not really going for boot cut jeans (or should I :confused: )

I wrote down the types they have at the store and put them in the poll...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Centaurion

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Hey man!

I have this CRAZY idea. How about you go to the store and try them out? Hmm..?
 

seanchai

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Straight legs are coming back big. Not to say bootfits will ever go out, but if you want to be fashion-forward I'd go with a tighter straight-leg like the 505. Actually, if you're sold on Levi's go for the Rigid Skinner: raw, slim-fit denim (both trends are heating up) that you can pick up at most Levi's outlets for $30.
 

penkitten

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i think you should try them on.
take a friend with you if you need too or a sister.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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splinterkb

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If you're gonna get a semi dressy pair, don't get levis. Express for men has some good jeans. Some of them are fairly expensive, but women love them.
 

WesCottII

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Get some combats.

also, before Warboss says it. At 125lbs, you really should eat something....
 

seanchai

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I'd take a pair of Skinners over anything Express offers, but they're both pretty poor quality denim.
 
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