"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can a Connoisseur of Levi Jeans please help me pick a type?

Which Levi's are the best?

  • 501

    Votes: 1 100.0%
  • 505

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 550

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 560

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 560

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    1

Microphone Fiend

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Alright here's the deal. I am 5'8, 125 lbs and I own mostly baggy jeans. After a couple episodes of "What Not to Wear" and realizing the stereotype I often fall into at first glance, Im looking to get some jeans that fit me and go well with a plain ole graphic tee and some sneakers. I only wear one pair of boots so Im not really going for boot cut jeans (or should I :confused: )

I wrote down the types they have at the store and put them in the poll...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Centaurion

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Hey man!

I have this CRAZY idea. How about you go to the store and try them out? Hmm..?
 

seanchai

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Straight legs are coming back big. Not to say bootfits will ever go out, but if you want to be fashion-forward I'd go with a tighter straight-leg like the 505. Actually, if you're sold on Levi's go for the Rigid Skinner: raw, slim-fit denim (both trends are heating up) that you can pick up at most Levi's outlets for $30.
 

penkitten

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i think you should try them on.
take a friend with you if you need too or a sister.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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splinterkb

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If you're gonna get a semi dressy pair, don't get levis. Express for men has some good jeans. Some of them are fairly expensive, but women love them.
 

WesCottII

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Get some combats.

also, before Warboss says it. At 125lbs, you really should eat something....
 

seanchai

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I'd take a pair of Skinners over anything Express offers, but they're both pretty poor quality denim.
 
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