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Can´t be attracted to over 25 girls

JdelaSilviera

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As a 25 yo guy, there are lots of problems for dating women over 25.

Number one is that most of them, are completely out of shape. It´s just ridiculous how they let themselves go, they are not physically attractive in a way a 19 yo, or very early twenties is. The ones who are in shape, usually have too much muscle, although they can be sexy, it´s not the same thing.

Even if they like you in datings, you are probably guy number 100 on their lives. They dated a lot of guys, had a few relationships, and fvcked anothers. It´s almost impossible to bond with someone after this past. Their "confidence" in datings, and their relaxed state, is not necessarily a good sign, it´s just means another day at the office, for someone who dates regularly.

Au contraire, that many guys think, having lots of relationships in the past, is not life experience, well, it is but it´s the wrong kind of experience, it makes you bitter and resentful towards good people that will come across you. With a bad analogy, it´s like surviving war, sure it´s a huge life experience, but something that I wish to never go through. Likewise, these girls are completely fvcked up with so many disappointments, they will overanalyze and question every move you make, as a cynic does.

Most of them are marriage obsessed, a great majority are in relationships, many times with guys they subconsciously despise, but that will make good fathers. You just have to see that geeky guys are suddenly getting laid, where in highschool that wouldn´t happen. For me it doesn´t have anything to do with maturity, it´s just that despite what many people think, young girls are much more difficult to settle because they have time, you must be that good for having a hot 19 yo girlfriend. A "hot" 29 when she exists, just wants to get married asap, it´s just time pressure, or a big deal of time pressure. When you enter into a relationship with a girl over 25, after a few months the girl will want to live with you, and/or marriage pressure will come.

So the conclusion is. Start gaming young girls NOW, today, and use your youth. Each party, or night in the club you don´t do anything to talk to them, it´s a missed opportunity, many guys do this error week after week, till a decade has past. Although many girls like older guys, keep in mind, that although you may have opportunities in the future, it´s much more difficult to meet young girls. How will you in your late 30s or 40s, meet a 20 yo that goes out regularly with their friends, her own age. In college is much easier...

Start your self improvement today, hit the gym today, work hard in each exercise. Create a sense of urgency in reaching your goals, otherwise they will never happen. You getting a six pack, for instance, may seem a futile objective for many people, (many who are lazy to work), but being in shape, makes the difference that you can fvck hot girls more easily, and your pool of available girls increases, meaning you can find good ones (yes good girls also feel horny by a sexy body).

Go get them
 

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I think what you are attacked too is innocence, which is protruded mostly in girls under 25. I for example, just go nuts for young girls, 15, 16. Legal age here is 16 though, but it still doesn't stop some young chicks sleeping with older men, it is just a personal choice not to have anything with an underage girl, because if you get caught you will grow a ***** in prison. So yea, young girls are the most attractive. Then they age and deteriorate fast.

Heh, one craigs list ad comes up to my mind, about business man's answer to one woman's ad, lol.

But there are older than 25 women that are fine ass. But tight ***** only have the young ones!
 

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It seems like the girls over 25 are just so bitter towards men in general. Especially when they are 30 and above. They have this hate for ALL men simply because THEY made some bad decisions by choosing the men they did. Most are divorced, 99% have one, two or three kids who most of the time are spoiled and aggravating.
 

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Eternal_water said:
I have a 6 pack, still a virgin.
Weighing 140lbs and having a 6pack doesn't count ;)

Welllp since I'm 20 myself might as well go for the 11-12 year olds because that's what SS told me to do (sarcasm font). I think this thread offers NOTHING to this site.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Agree with that, approaching 30 here and except some no string attached sex with a 30yrs old girl last year, I've been dating and having sex only with girls below 22.

I tried once with a 26 yrs old girl but she already had the "reptile mentality" that lead her into dealing dating like a contract where she weights pro and cons or every man and every relation.

Much better the free emotion based relationships with young girls, even the drama is of a more pleasable quality since its genuine drama due to fear or confusion instead of planned drama as a mind game or sh1t test.

Plus I can tolerate to own a used car but simply cant get romantic or emotive with a girl that has been owned from other men, fine for fvck no chance in hell for romance.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Agree with that, approaching 30 here and except some no string attached sex with a 30yrs old girl last year, I've been dating and having sex only with girls below 22.

I tried once with a 26 yrs old girl but she already had the "reptile mentality" that lead her into dealing dating like a contract where she weights pro and cons or every man and every relation.

Much better the free emotion based relationships with young girls, even the drama is of a more pleasable quality since its genuine drama due to fear or confusion instead of planned drama as a mind game or sh1t test.

Plus I can tolerate to own a used car but simply cant get romantic or emotive with a girl that has been owned from other men, fine for fvck no chance in hell for romance.
Yep, this question didn´t bother me a few years ago. But now it really pisses me off. This also, shows how useless it is to cry over a girl, that we won´t find attractive very soon.

All my girl friends, date non-top, they must be with 5 guys a year minimum.. Doing this from 15 . Now when they date, it´s almost like a job interview... they approach dating in a very cold way.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Have fun with flakey 22 year old attention wh0res

There are attention *****s in all age categories son, if you think the girl is attention *****, don't give her attention. :up:



So erhm, Russia, women are expected to at least have a child by the age 25, better married with children. If you find single women age 25 and above here, you begin to question WTF is wrong with her. So majority of dates are women 16 - 22, those are the once without children and single. I prefer younger girls, because they still have their ***** tight - I have a thin **** so it's important.
 

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To me it seems most girls over 25 are looking to get married and settle down, which is not what I'm looking for
 
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