"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Camera Cell Phones: Using Them To Approach / Close

Krassus

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I absolutely love my camera phone! It's so incredibly useful when it comes to picking up women that it's starting to get ridiculous! Use your imagination... there are literally dozens of incredibly unique things you can do with one of these things to pull women left and right!

Here's where you start: take a funny pic! I have a pic of my buddy wearing a wig and hugging some girl, a pic of a Chinese retaurant menu with an item called Fukin Rice on it, a pic of another buddy of mine looking real funny while eating a pita and so forth.

When you see a set, all you do is whip out your cell and go 'sup guys, i've got something hilarious here, you're gonna love it!' Their eyes always light up as you pull out your camera phone. Especially Asian girls - they love this techy stuff!

Just minutes ago, i used it to # close a girl i've never met over MSN. I've never spoken to her before and 20 minutes later, i have her digits. She's an HB8 from AsianAvenue and had her MSN on the page along with a bunch of pics.

All i did was tell her a funny-ass story about how i got my friend to wear the wig, and say that i can send the pic over to her if she's got picture messenging on her cell. She does. Tomorrow i'll send it to her and follow up with a call to ask her out for coffee.

Camphone pics are also excellent props to use while talking to sets. After taking the wig pic, me and the wingman sarged a 3-set in a coffee shop and i showed them the pic. Like i said, he was wearing the wig and hugging the cute worker, so they started asking if that's his girlfriend. You get the idea.

Enjoy!

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Their eyes always light up as you pull out your camera phone. Especially Asian girls - they love this techy stuff!

Hmmm...what does that tell you? I'm sure flashing a few credit cards would work too, right? :)

But seriously, I like the idea of having something to show them as an icebreaker.
 

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This is the only prop i can think of that can be used in the initial approach. Other stuff can be used later on, but it would come off too unnatural. As opposed to a guy being anxious to show off his new toy :p
 

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This is the only prop i can think of that can be used in the initial approach

your mind obviously does not fuction too well then huh? Maybe your nurse should wheel you over to the DJbible or to Look up approaches?

Be careful though... wouldn't want you drooling on the keyboard and becoming killing yourself with the electical charge...

Though I will admit camera's and stuff are good for approaches... it doens't need to be a camera phone... just a nice camera or something. Especially digital... so they can see it right away[then afterwards you acn delete it and go to the next chick ;) ]
 

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you picked up a girl ONLINE. WOOPTY DOO. I'm gonna head over to a chat room right now and use my SUAVE skills to DJ girls with my ****Y AND FUNNY routines.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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