“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Came on too fast

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I give Up

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Okay. What do I do if I meet a girl that likes me, and I chase her off because I came on too fast.

I didn't exactly chase her off completely, she just LJBF'd me. I'm pretty sure that she liked me a lot at first, but I jumped the gun.

Do any of you guys think that I could try again this time, just much much slower. Start from the ground up in friendship mode and come on gradually as she gets to know me better?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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No, no, no, no.

Find another girl and start afresh. The girl who LJBF'd you is gone forever.
 
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Never say never...

I wouldnt say 'gone forever' dude. Just take a step back, act calm, dont call her and hang with other chicks. Then if she's interested she'll come to you!

Im kinda in the same situation at the moment and thats what im doing altho i think my chances are gone! :D But that didnt stop me from frenching 4 girls last night! :D
 
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Change your screen name

Do that first. Ever heard of neuro-linguistic programming?

Regarding this situation, just hang back for a bit. It's better to be a bit too bold than wimp out. If you're cool about everything, she may even start to wish she didn't blow her chance with you.

Chill out, and find ten other women.
 
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Re: Never say never...

Originally posted by silverwex
I wouldnt say 'gone forever' dude. Just take a step back, act calm, dont call her and hang with other chicks. Then if she's interested she'll come to you!

Im kinda in the same situation at the moment and thats what im doing altho i think my chances are gone! :D But that didnt stop me from frenching 4 girls last night! :D
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Whatever you say dude.
 
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When a girl starts pulling away, you do the same. Don't contact her anymore. If she is interested in you, she will wonder why you stopped chasing her and she will attempt to contact you. If this happens, remember not to make yourself too available. Being indifferent and somewhat of a challenge can be very effective with women.
 
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