came across her on myspace should i say anything

[MattS]

ok i was recently fvcking around on myspace clicking through pages and i came across this ch1ck who had a tiny past with nothing major. shes a cool chick.

Long story short knew her through mutual people for a while but never really talked. then we hung out a couple of times, kissed (both drunk) hung out a couple more times, couple weeks later im drunk in her bed and let her down by not fvcking her that night (whiskey d1ck). from what i heard she really wanted to fvck me for the longest time. so i let her down unitentionally. after that went down hill cause i probably smashed her self esteem. we hung out after that but she got me back by leading on at the bar then turning me down after i asked her to come home with me. i even said are you p1ssed cause i didnt fvck you and she said yea.

So i initiated like 2 times after that with texts and she would reply but nothing happened again. I probably havent talked to her in about 6 months. Should i just send her a friend request and leave a message and say whats up punk? or whatever. I dont have expectations of anything happening.

Haha shell probably think im like a stalker or something cause shell be like how did he find me. she has some AW in her. so any suggestions?

 

[ryannath]

I say don't do it. She had her chance and turned you down twice you said. Don't go all AFC by chasing her. Have some respect man.

 

[Poll]

Yes message her with "I thought only dorks, losers, and pedophiles have myspace, what are you doing here?"

 

[MattS]

she turned me down once after i turned her down first. i would do the same to someone who did that to me. but all this sh!t happened like a while ago. thats probably a neg talking about dorks etc. dont know about that. think just saying hey punk

 

[ryannath]

I wouldn't do it, but do what you want man. It seems a little desperate to me though to be honest, and I'm sure she will think so too.

 

[MattS]

i think if i said hey and she replied then i immediatley said we should hang out that would come off like that.

 

[ryannath]

Ok, well it may be AFC, but heck, go for it. Who cares? You got nothing to lose. Maybe it would be AFC to chicken out..idk. I'm sort of in a situation like you as well. I used to have a crush on a girl in school like 6 yrs ago lol..and i saw her on myspace and i thought about talking to her on there and seeing if she remembered me but I thought it was AFC.

 

[MattS]

well you are in the same shoes. guess theres only one way to find out what would happen.

 

[ryannath]

Yeah, the thing is I never really talked to her in school lol..i just had a huge crush on her but was too AFC to talk to her then...then if I ask if she remembers me she will think it's weird since I never used to talk to her..but you are right, we will never know if we don't try. I'll try sometime.

 

[Mind_Body_Soul]

Ok, well it may be AFC, but heck, go for it. Who cares? You got nothing to lose. Maybe it would be AFC to chicken out..idk. I'm sort of in a situation like you as well. I used to have a crush on a girl in school like 6 yrs ago lol..and i saw her on myspace and i thought about talking to her on there and seeing if she remembered me but I thought it was AFC.

If this was someone that you hadn't already gotten into bed with, I'd say don't do it, but in this case, you honestly have nothing to lose. If she doesn't reply, who gives a f.ck and if she does, you might get another shot at it. I like the c+f above about only dorks pedophiles etc.