Considering she hasnt fvcked him and the way she is obsessed over him (oneitis), I would like to meet that guy and learn from him. I always thought alpha widows were only after she has had s3x and an emotional roller coaster.How can I experience attraction to more men
TLDR: how can I be attracted to more men so I don’t get stuck on one jerk for months?
I just dated this cute guy for a little over a month. He pursued me and acted super charming. We made out a lot but did not have sex. I took it slowly with him because he let me know that he had an STD.
Usually that in itself would be a dealbreaker for me, but I took it slowly with him because he was amazing. We had the same interests, career type and he was gorgeous. Then one day he let me know there’s no emotional connection and drops me. We never even slept together.
I’m really struggling to get over this because I felt like the attraction between us was unique and special, and I craved sex with him.
I’ve dated a lot of guys I’m just not attracted to so I’m used to losing interest in the physical stuff. How can I become attracted to more people and open myself to the possibility of a fulfilling sex life? I don’t want to be stuck on this guy, but I feel like I’ll rarely experience physical attraction like this again and my heart is shutting down.