"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Calories in/out question

Throttle

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eating more simple carbs (sugars & starches) than you need to refill your muscle glycogen can contribute to fat storage. heavy eating before bed can cause sleeping problems, but it depends on the person. it's much worse if you're already carrying extra body fat around.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warboss Alex

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flyinshark said:
I've always heard people say that eating at night is the fastest way to gain weight, so i've always avoided eating late, for fear of getting fat.

I guess i have 2 choices now. Either i start eating after gym, or i start going to the gym earlier (and eat after of course). I can do that, if this is proven to work.

Thanks man, i look forward to this change and if i start gaining muscle faster, i'll be a happy man!
man.. read my earlier post. right after the workout, your muscles have first dibs on nutrients, not your fat storage. it'd be the same at night I assure you. if you do start putting on chub (a) review your whole diet and (b) halve the carb portion in the 11pm meal, replace with green veg (or eliminiate the carbs).. for now, just trust me.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
I tend to try not to eat right before bed, but if it happens, I don't worry.
I've been told that eating before bed can cause sleeping problems as well as increased fat storage.

Any truth to that?
if you eat a gallon of ice cream before bed, yeah, fat storage.

if you eat a lb of chicken tenders with a lb of green veg that's gonna put your metabolism into overdrive trying to digest and break down overnight .. you'll be burning during your sleep.

sleeping problems depends on the person. I sleep better after a big meal.. others might not.
 
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