mrRuckus said:
This is just another one of those things that there's no point defending. Guys spend way too much time on the defensive.
"You're controlling."
'Okay?' *go flirt with other girls and let her become the one flipping out*
"You're controlling."
'And?'
Oh I put it on her this week. After a ridiculous argument, more just noncommunication, as I could care less about this dude, it is the point on hand, anyways she ignored me for a bit and then I ignored her back, well in 90 mins she did not hear from me she mentioned getting her things in the morning...So we spoke or argued a bit later, and when she got home from work I had dropped her stuff off at her house. She called me immediately in a panic..haha....
I turned the tables on her powerplay, I told her if she asks for her things back she is gonna get them back and I will be gone. She learned a lesson.
Also, we went out to dinner yest, had a very fun and great day, but the waitress was loving me so I became sweeter to the waitress each time she came around just to be funny and rub it in.....I got a good response out of her, she knows Im a good catch and can receive that attention if I want it.
Its not games, its more of me making my case that although I respect her and hold her high, treat her great, I am a man, the man in this relationship and I won't be disrespected by being ignored or threatened.
We are closer for this. a 7 month obstacle, at this point we are truly getting to know one another and I am setting the boundaries about my convictions , morals and expectations.
damn girls are tough to deal with though.
