"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Calling up Phone Numberes: Best Time This weekend

mackdaddy27

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Guys,

I accidently forgot to call up my numbers this Monday-thursday for a weeekend date.

Do you think that if I called on saturday ( afternoon or around noon ) that it would be the best time to call

I was planning on setting up a date on sunday night..
please advise guys


should I wait until Sunday... or Monday..



Please give me your opinions/expeience on the best chances to get ahold of a girl w/o having to seem desperate and call up multiple times.

THanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wait till Monday and set date for wesnday or thrusday
 

NewGuy72

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Call on sun or Monday for a date in the middle of the week. That's what i do, a girl needs to earn the right to go out with me on a fri-sun.
 

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best days are usually tuesday or wednesday - shows u are super busy on the weekend and then not overlly desperate on the monday.

personally i would wait, and send a funny text in the middle of that time to keep her thinking about you.
 

mackdaddy27

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but its already been a week since i got the number, do you think that
finding a good time is not worth it because i might end up losing this chick
if i prolong any longer?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bro you need to listen

all this when to call shiit is BS. don't listen to that shiit

first, how we gonna know your chicks' schedule to the point that we can tell you the best time to contact them? what we look like, they managers? lol

Call when ever the hell you feel like it. honestly a chick won't give fvck. If she dig you she'll be happy you called.

don't be obsessin over dumb rules
 

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NewGuy72 said:
Call on sun or Monday for a date in the middle of the week. That's what i do, a girl needs to earn the right to go out with me on a fri-sun.

ain't we mister High nick wit the golden d1ck?

I'm curious. what you mean by earn the right?
 

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Salamence said:
ain't we mister High nick wit the golden d1ck?

I'm curious. what you mean by earn the right?
by "earn the right" I mean that they need to prove that they are worth it (ie, I like them for more than their *****) and that they won't flake. On the weekends I usually have lots of things I could be doing (it's really the only time I hang with friends) and I don't want to waste it on a girl that potentially will flake. I only go out with new girls during the week, with the weekend saved for girls that have already proven their interest or to chill with my friends.

At least for me half of the girls I plan day2's with end up flaking.
 
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